I've always learn it this way.. before something negative comes
out of my mouth, say something positive. Instead of going straight
to the "i have a bad day yadda yadda" , ask about her , tell her
she looks brighter today etc. Somehow after a few experiments of
compliments, i realised women are more open to what i say to even
accepting what i say too. You may want to try it. :) And you
mentioned you help her to look up the part time jobs , did you tell
her about it? Sometimes, doing it secretly might not be helpful.
She might not know.. Of course depending on what kind of girl is
she.
Charlize mentioned that the guy usually get the shorter end of
the stick in a relationship .. i shall say it's true but only when
you have the energy and interest to keep it going if not, the girl
might be doing all she can to keep the relationship going too.
I know girls who like guys to whine to them though. cause most
of the time guys behave more like cavemen. By being open with your
problems and them just listening can be a good effort to making
them feel you're making an effort to let them know what's going on.
Which could be considered a nice gesture , to some.
Hey thanks for the advice. Hopefully i'll learn to manage my
emotions not just only with regards to the relationship, but also
towards my work!
