Yea sadly got times when I think they just treat me as a source
of money as well. They kept saying they are doing it for my
well-being but sometimes I really doubt so.
How do you think I can take control? I can't just quit my job
just like that, I am bonded to it for the next few years...so they
know I can't quit.
Ofcors you can take control.
There is always an exit clause to any contractual agreement.
Just because you are bonded does not mean you sold your soul to the
company.
Let them know if you quit.. you will have to pay a hefty
penalty. Not only will you not have a job.. you will also be in
debt. Ask them.. is that what they want ?
You are right to doubt their true intent about your
"Well-being".
Ask yourself this.. if you are a mother.. and your child have to
send so much money to you.. what will she live on ? If you truly
love her.. wouldn't you want her to keep more money so she can
spend more on herself and live a better life ?
Sometimes.. this concept .. filial piety .. gets abused.