haiz.. dun worry la. U be proud of urself la. Can survive
through the bullshit and still turned out alrite. Functioning
according to specifications.
Well, if u really quietly think about it, the time when they
really care and love is mostly also at a time when we can hardly
remember liaw. e.g during infancy stage...
All parentes have motives. Maybe thier motive was to.. make u a
better tougher more appreciative person u are today. Thats how i
try to see it. Turn the negative energy into a positive one.But
some really obvious negative ones.. can stay negative la.
But anyways, first things first. Show the procedure in sg. e.g
bring them along.. for first hand experience, then the rest u know
what to do liaw la. Patience and thee Grandchild trump card. ;p
Yea, sometimes I try to think that the reason why they refused
to help me is to make me into a more independent person. And they
have succeeded, if that is truly their motive. I like to think of
myself as someone who is not dependent on them, I will never ask
them for money no matter how much I need them. I have learned how
to fend for myself for the past few years and it has been working
well so far.
So actually I would be very happy if they just settle down and
enjoy their retirement life without worrying about me...I know how
to do things on my own as I am already an adult. Dunno how to get
this across to them.
