Thank you for reading this topic, please read with an open mind.
Advice will be taken and read with gratefulness. Those who could
not understand and cant accept the story, kindly respect the
situation as no one knows and expects what is going to happen in
life. We only live once.
I am in love with a married woman. She told me that she love me
and is in a dilema. She do not know what to do.
I initate a clear break up thru sms but when we met up the
following days, we still ended up together as there are still
feelings for each other.
Can someone give me advice? What should I do? I am in love with
her and she know it. How can I: -
i) Make it even clearer to her that I wan her and be with her?
(this is to show her that I am true to her and is sincere)
ii) know that she wan to be with me too (since she say she is in
a dilema, i guess it should be me, the guy, to ensure her, however,
I wan to make sure she is not just wanting to be with me to escape
from her current relationship)
I do not agree that once a person who fall in
love with another party other than the spouse, cannot b trusted
& shld be condemn. There are many reasons why the person
is married to his/her current spouse, it may not be necessarily be
love
Now Stuck,
i) & ii) There is no other ways to show her how
much u want to be with her except than to give her (&
urself) more time to make decision (if any),
& perhaps some space too.. U have to think in her
position that she's a married woman, she cant be possibly seen
behavin intimately with another man in public.
By also givin urself the time to think if she's really the
one u want to be with or it's just hots for her is good for both
parties.
However, I hope u know her long enuf to know tat she is not
lying to u. She might be feelin lonely or neglected
& ur appearance may be just the right timing for her to
rely on temporary. She might leave u once
her husband gives her the attention & love that she craves
for.
Only time will tell.