I feel betrayed

jojobeach SG

Oh pls... You have not been reading properly havent you?

Yes that indo bitch is marrying my bro and I dont care... She gets more attention, so? I get off the hook any time...

The thing is mum have been supporting reason no.8... read properly, don't be too dumb to judge, bitch...

It's your quote: It's hard for a bitch to get along with another bitch

so if that makes me a bitch, wouldnt that make you a bitch?

P.S. If you have no advises, pls don't comment and waste space... Geezzz..

Duh bitch.

You bitch about her bitching about her mom to your mom. And yet you also bitch about your mother didn't ya ? Now what does that makes all of us ?

Ain't we all a bunch of bitches yes ?

Get a life bitch. At least that bitch is marrying your brother.. why don't you go find yourself a nice man and go bitch about his mom ?

White_SoulReaper SG

Duh bitch.

You bitch about her bitching about her mom to your mom. And yet you also bitch about your mother didn't ya ? Now what does that makes all of us ?

Ain't we all a bunch of bitches yes ?

Get a life bitch. At least that bitch is marrying your brother.. why don't you go find yourself a nice man and go bitch about his mom ?

That indo bitch bitches about her mum with someone that her mum knows, a close friend, just to gain a little sympathy to push the wedding date closer...

I 'bitch' about my mum? really? I feel betrayed by her since she choose and outsider over me, her own daughter... Is that bitching about my mother? That indo bitch, really talk back behind her own mother's back and it is not just complaining about her mum...

I thought that a bitch like you would understand the difference... Oh well...

and no, we are not a bunch of bitches... If you declare and demean yourself as a bitch, then go ahead... I have self-respect in myself not to put myself in such a low position as you have...

Why are you so worked up on this case? Unless you are in the same position as that Indo bitch... What should I say, real bitches think alike...

Get a life? What life? This is part of my life... Maybe you dont understand the meaning of family...

jojobeach SG

That indo bitch bitches about her mum with someone that her mum knows, a close friend, just to gain a little sympathy to push the wedding date closer...

I thought that a bitch like you would understand the difference... Oh well...

and no, we are not a bunch of bitches... If you declare and demean yourself as a bitch, then go ahead... I have self-respect in myself not to put myself in such a low position as you have...

Why are you so worked up on this case? Unless you are in the same position as that Indo bitch... What should I say, real bitches think alike...

Get a life? What life? This is part of my life... Maybe you dont understand the meaning of family...

No bitch.. because I was a bitch like you before.

I bitched about my older brother's choice of partners. I was a trouble maker and caused his breakup with his love one.

Then after that I found out that woman was pregnant with his child.. and had to abort the baby because the marriage fell through.

I'm just telling you.. you need to keep your nose out of his relationship. Because it's his life and if your mother supports his choice.. then so be it.

Your bitching only brand you as the trouble maker. so why should anyone listen to you ?

Just because you are the daughter doesn't mean your mother should side with you.

No, his life is not your life. And your meddling with his life is uncalled for.

White_SoulReaper SG

No bitch.. because I was a bitch like you before.

I bitched about my older brother's choice of partners. I was a trouble maker and caused his breakup with his love one.

Then after that I found out that woman was pregnant with his child.. and had to abort the baby because the marriage fell through.

I'm just telling you.. you need to keep your nose out of his relationship. Because it's his life and if your mother supports his choice.. then so be it.

Your bitching only brand you as the trouble maker. so why should anyone listen to you ?

Just because you are the daughter doesn't mean your mother should side with you.

No, his life is not your life. And your meddling with his life is uncalled for.

Oh pls.... I am no Bitch like you... You have not even been reading properly...

1st of all, my bro will not just go and bang anyone before marriage and it's NOT HIS choice to be married, it's my MUM's... Y? Cause my mum despo my bro over 30 havent married... My bro has been hinting that he doesnt wanna get married, but due to his guilt for his past mistakes, he just didnt persist when my mum dismisses it... Yea it's his choice all right...

And since you have not been reading properly, since when did I bitch around about her? You said I did... i mentioned to my mum that I DIDNT LIKE LISTENING to my mum talking about that indo bitch talking bad behind her own mum's back...

Your situation and mine are different... For you your situation is bad, since it is YOUR fault, for me, there's nothing really I could do...

Choosing that Indo Bitch over me is wrong, not because of kinship because wat she is doing is wrong... It's about loyalty... If that Indo Bitch can talk behind her own mum that way, when she marries into the family, hell knows what she could do...

You dont even know what's going on and you linking my case to your own sad story? How dumb can you be?

so buzz off and find someone else to rid your guilt bitch...

R3D3V1L SG

Duh bitch.

You bitch about her bitching about her mom to your mom. And yet you also bitch about your mother didn't ya ? Now what does that makes all of us ?

Ain't we all a bunch of bitches yes ?

Get a life bitch. At least that bitch is marrying your brother.. why don't you go find yourself a nice man and go bitch about his mom ?

Nuts. If we are all bitches then you should change ur name to "jojoBITCH"

edit: everytime a thread starts its inevitable to expect more bitching from other people rather than the useful advice you're looking for.

jojobeach SG

Oh pls.... I am no Bitch like you... You have not even been reading properly...

Your situation and mine are different... For you your situation is bad, since it is YOUR fault, for me, there's nothing really I could do...

You dont even know what's going on and you linking my case to your own sad story? How dumb can you be?

so buzz off and find someone else to rid your guilt bitch...

Sure.. you're not a bitch ? Or its just everyone else are bitch except you ?

OK. Good to know there's really not much you can do except to come to SGF and bitch about that bitch.

So you think your mother should side with you just because you're her dotter ? LOL..how lame.

And what do you expect your mother to do if she DO side with you ?

Kick that bitch out of the family ? That's what you really want don't ya ?

And in the end.. will you finally be happy ?

If all you care about is YOUR own happiness. then.. sad to say.. you're nothing but a pathetic bitch yourself.. no ?

I feel sorry for your brother to have such a selfish little brat sister. My sincerest condolence.

jojobeach SG

Nuts. If we are all bitches then you should change ur name to "jojoBITCH"

edit: everytime a thread starts its inevitable to expect more bitching from other people rather than the useful advice you're looking for.

Are you a dude or a dudette ?

White_SoulReaper SG

Sure.. you're not a bitch ? Or its just everyone else are bitch except you ?

OK. Good to know there's really not much you can do except to come to SGF and bitch about that bitch.

So you think your mother should side with you just because you're her dotter ? LOL..how lame.

And what do you expect your mother to do if she DO side with you ?

Kick that bitch out of the family ? That's what you really want don't ya ?

And in the end.. will you finally be happy ?

If all you care about is YOUR own happiness. then.. sad to say.. you're nothing but a pathetic bitch yourself.. no ?

Oh my... hahaha

Since you have 'lost' in an argument, you ignore the 'winning' points...

You know you are wrong, no point arguing with someone who demeans herself...

jojobeach SG

Oh my... hahaha

Since you have 'lost' in an argument, you ignore the 'winning' points...

You know you are wrong, no point arguing with someone who demeans herself...

girl.. there's not such thing as winning or losing here. Wake up ok ?

You win which point ? Nothing so far.

Trust me.. the person who is demeaning herself is you.

Your behavior is demeaning already.. your selfishness is demeaning already.. just because you don't ADMIT you're one.. doesn't make you not one.

R3D3V1L SG

Are you a dude or a dudette ?

I'm your mother.

jojobeach SG

I'm your mother.

Really ? Welcome back mom.. I thought you're dead ?

R3D3V1L SG

Really ? Welcome back mom.. I thought you're dead ?

Your insolence brought me back to life. Let me sleep plsssssss. I'm going out liao. Laters. Have fun and be nice.

jojobeach SG

Your insolence brought me back to life. Let me sleep plsssssss

R3.. you want my mom to come visit your tonight ? I'll let her know.

White_SoulReaper SG

just to make it clear since jojobitch didnt get the point:

- came her to find a solution for feeling betrayed by my mum...

-No, i am not pissed at my mum cause she chose someone over her daughter... Yet that person is already in a wrong...

-That indo bitch is not married yet into my family... so how to kick her out?

-Me care about my own happiness? Maybe, so what, i should let that indo bitch marry into the family and kick my parents out of the house, find fault in my mum so my bro will hate her?

-Don't feel sorry for me... I actually feel sorry for your dead niece/nephew that was aborted... Because marriage didnt follow through, go and abort aka kill her/his life and for what... Even if your bro is too irresponsible to take care of the baby at least your family can give the baby to someone who has been longing for a child... My condolences for the baby to have been conceived in your family...

-anyways, jojobitch, I thought that the way you potray yourself in speakers corners was mature... Yet you act this way here...

Dismissing the truth and denying and giving others personal insult instead... Talk about being a bitch...

jojobeach SG

just to make it clear since jojobitch didnt get the point:

- came her to find a solution for feeling betrayed by my mum...

-No, i am not pissed at my mum cause she chose someone over her daughter... Yet that person is already in a wrong...

-That indo bitch is not married yet into my family... so how to kick her out?

-Me care about my own happiness? Maybe, so what, i should let that indo bitch marry into the family and kick my parents out of the house, find fault in my mum so my bro will hate her?

-anyways, jojobitch, I thought that the way you potray yourself in speakers corners was mature... Yet you act this way here...

Dismissing the truth and denying and giving others personal insult instead... Talk about being a bitch...

Yes I also feel sorry for my dead nephew/niece. That was really regretful. I wished I wasn't so wilful back then. If I had known earlier I woulda kept my mouth shut. After all it's his future and his family.

I don't see why you need to make her complaining about her family such a big deal. I suppose you must be so deperate to find some fault in that woman.. so you can cause a rift.

Every family has it's own problem.. maybe that woman couldn't get along with her own family. But it does not means she will not get along with your family.

Maybe she feels your mother is a understanding person , thus she feels that she can be open about her family problem to your mother.

Using her weakness to stab her in the back is already ethically wrong on your part.

2 wrong does not make one right.

I think it's time you live and let live.

After all .. she will be the one sleeping beside your brother.. and she will be the one to carry your brother's baby.

She has done you no wrong. So it's time to let bygone be bygone.

A family rift is one that is hard to be undone.

White_SoulReaper SG

I don't see why you need to make her complaining about her family such a big deal. I suppose you must be so deperate to find some fault in that woman.. so you can cause a rift.

Every family has it's own problem.. maybe that woman couldn't get along with her own family. But it does not means she will not get along with your family.

Maybe she feels your mother is a understanding person , thus she feels that she can be open about her family problem to your mother.

Using her weakness to stab her in the back is already ethically wrong on your part.

2 wrong does not make one right.

I think it's time you live and let live.

After all .. she will be the one sleeping beside your brother.. and she will be the one to carry your brother's baby.

She has done you no wrong. So it's time to let bygone be bygone.

A family rift is one that is hard to be undone.

This already shows her character of loyalty... In front of her mum, she would be very affectionate. behind her mum, she talks behind her back...

This is family we are talking about... It's not like my bro and her meet and date each other first than wanna get married... They just met and bomb! her family pushes ours for a fast marriage... She has many other m'sian suitors but she chased after my bro, y? cause we are sg reans...

What family problems is she talking about with my mum... It's not like she fought with her mum and seek some consolement in my my mum... It's practically bitching about her own mum... Look at what my mum's wearing, so old nia nia nia...

Why would I want to cause a rift? Doesnt make any sense...

Since you have not been reading the 1st post, let me assure you that bitching about her mum is not the only bad factor she has... GO read up the 1st post before you anyhow pin point fingers at others...

I hope she doesnt get married into the family... For my family's sake and her sake... For my family, I dont want any indo drama(since her family is very dramatic), and for her sake, hope that my brother doesnt physically abuse her since he is now already verbally abusing her... Who would want a child to be raised in this kind of evironment?

Yea right, she has done me no wrong... GO read up the 1st post...

If there's a family rift, it would be because of her..

BrUtUs SG

wa so fast erode to flame thread liao...

jojobeach SG

This already shows her character of loyalty... In front of her mum, she would be very affectionate. behind her mum, she talks behind her back...

Why would I want to cause a rift? Doesnt make any sense...

Yea right, she has done me no wrong... GO read up the 1st post...

If there's a family rift, it would be because of her..

Actually I did read through your 1st post.

Other than childish nick picking.. there's really not much substance to your complains about this woman.

The first impression I get.. was you are resentful towards that woman and blames her for your demotion in your family standing.

Falling out of favor has nothing to do with her behavior.. rather .. it has much to do about how you handle or react towards your family.

Your brother is already 32.. if he fails to find another woman , are you going to remain single and take care of him until he dies ?

Your mother is probably not young either.. she has dreams and hopes to become a grandmother soon. If she cannot fulfill her dreams through your brother. are you going to give her grandchildren on your own ?

Both family must consent to a marriage arrangement. If your brother and parents don't agree to this union.. no matter how hard they push.. it will not happen.

Please stop insulting your brother's intellect and integrity with your wilful thoughts. He is old enough to make his own life decision.

If one day you decides to marry a guy.. and your family objects, are you going to dump him for your family sake ?

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