I AM FEELING SAD ALL THE TIME

last SG · 2008-09-13T23:04:53+00:00

Basically you are making yourself sad and blue.Your grades are your grades. It doesn't do anything, it is just grades. It is you who is making yourself sad...

Sakuraflower SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

parn SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

Do nothing.

And let's get SAD Together!

swiftydonuts SG

Now you've blurt out ur feelings, feeling any better?

fatone SG

Chunseah SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

Stare at the wall or the sky....I always do that...(day dreaming)

It is a common problem nowadays lah...

JerryYan SG

think this feeling is like having slight depression

if it's not affecting yr life, then leave it as it is

if not, try to consult a doc for depression medicine

cherrycola SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

Find out what is the root of your sadness.

rlsh07 SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

wat is causing you to feel tis way then?

HyperionDCZ SG

whats the cause of the problem?

CrabbyShaSha SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

You said you are trying.

Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

And yet you are resistant.

Is that trying?

I think first up, remove that wall of resistant. Understand that no matter what people suggest to you, they cannot force you to do what you do not want to do. You do not have to please all people. Do what you think is comfortable for you to try out gradually since you are going to be resistant to what you don't feel comfortable anyway.

I feel like I cannot be myself.

Then that's more reason to be yourself! If you feel trapped, depress and sad, that's the reason why!

Find a time and place, alone or with friends (it is easier these days on the internet to find like-minded new friends, of course safety cautions still apply, always meet in public places), try something new, watch a movies, or do whatever you like. Join a CC or volunteer for an event (one-time affair only) and see if it helps boost your self-esteem. You can perhaps google for volunteer events such as http://www.childrensociety.org.sg/volunteer/concerns.htm (I typed in volunteer and click to find pages from Singapore)

Or perhaps other forumnites have other events to suggest or other suggestions?

CrabbyShaSha SG

For me, watch some nice drama on Youtube (this is one of my fav: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jICO-GUJYTk Total 24 ep) and get inspired by the characters. And especially for girls who need to feel loved and pampered, doll up, get dressed, and do not feel guilty about it! And learn to ask for help in little ways and do not feel ashamed just because the society/media make us girls seem as if some super incredible superwomen who are supposed to be good at EVERYTHING! IMPOSSIBLE!

Do something nice for yourself too because you deserve it. Tell yourself you're the sweetest being and because you are now empty and depleted, you need and deserve more love than anyone else. You're worth it. Remember that!

Sakuraflower SG

The problem is with my school... The school make me have this problem and it is because of my work too... mainly the school.. it makes me struck with these problems which I cannot solve myself..

I try all the matters that is mentions above, it helps me a while. But I will be back to the original problems. I will be sad again..

Sakuraflower SG

I am sad... I went through all the "shit" and this is what i get. I did double the work , people get my credit and I get a lousy grade and struck in a shitty situation where I dun seen myself developing and growing into a person I want to become.

I hate this life i am in. I am feeling sad.. As for my work, there are no prospect... I feel like a failure... Should i stay on to get my experiences. When I am in a very shitty situation.

I AM FEELING VERY UPSET!!! whenever people seen my grade or I seen my own... i am feeling UPSET AND SAD, because I know all this subject , but my grade reflect so badly of me... I am upset. I dun seen a further for myself... It stick to me whole life...

People console me with never mind... BUT FUCKING HELL!!! IT IS MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE... I REALLY HATE THE FEELING AND SITUATION I AM IN>>>

>>>>>>>> VERY SAD AND BLUE!!!!>>>>>>>>

Sakuraflower SG

I hate this life i am in. I am feeling sad.. As for my work, there are no prospect... I feel like a failure... Should i stay on to get my experiences. When I am in a very shitty situation.

People console me with never mind... BUT FUCKING HELL!!! IT IS MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE... I REALLY HATE THE FEELING AND SITUATION I AM IN>>>

>>>>>>>> VERY SAD AND BLUE!!!!>>>>>>>>

nikas SG

hm grades don't reflect who you are very well, and what matters is not to give up. failing doesn't mean you are a failure. what matters is that you keep trying and learn from your failings =)

angel7030 SG

I hate this life i am in. I am feeling sad.. As for my work, there are no prospect... I feel like a failure... Should i stay on to get my experiences. When I am in a very shitty situation.

People console me with never mind... BUT FUCKING HELL!!! IT IS MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE... I REALLY HATE THE FEELING AND SITUATION I AM IN>>>

>>>>>>>> VERY SAD AND BLUE!!!!>>>>>>>>

you are what i call a guy...bo lan par ji

the_fallen SG

I am trying to make myself happy. But part of me are very unhappy. I hate the state I am in. I feel like I cannot be myself. I know I shouldn't be in this way. I feel rotten.

In fact , I feel worthless. Can anybody tell me what to do... Dun tell me way of distress... it is not going to help me.

care to talk about your situation?

the_fallen SG

Do nothing.

And let's get SAD Together!

hai yoyo.

such a saddist wor..

Devil1976 SG

I hate this life i am in. I am feeling sad.. As for my work, there are no prospect... I feel like a failure... Should i stay on to get my experiences. When I am in a very shitty situation.

People console me with never mind... BUT FUCKING HELL!!! IT IS MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE... I REALLY HATE THE FEELING AND SITUATION I AM IN>>>

>>>>>>>> VERY SAD AND BLUE!!!!>>>>>>>>

Many people just don't get to become who they wish to be. And I mean MANY. If it's of any help or console at all, I'm just telling you you're not the only one. In fact, there're people who fall back into deeper sh|t holes than you do.

You can just sit around get all UPSET and FUCKED about it. Or you can think of what you want to do about all these contructively next. Give yourself some time and opportunity. What I wish to say is that if you're genuinely putting in your efforts, all should not be just wasted with time. The least ya gain is experience. Sometimes luck is just not on your side. Other times there might just be something very wrong with you which you could probably make changes about. Find out which is which.

I've been through sh|t too. If I've not waited this long and worked so hard, I won't have been who I am today. And no, I'm not saying I'm someone great, but at least there's improvements and achievements in my life. The rest of the things are just next steps to me. Even today I can tell you honestly I'm no longer an always very happy person I used to be. Sometimes like yourself, I might ask myself why. But the truth is often there're just too many theories contradicting themselves. Afterall, sometimes when life gets too complicated and overwhelm us, we should realise that we're just not super-computers made to solve everything in every aspects of our lives....

In fact I'd been so suicidal that if I had let life take over me, I would not live to see who I am today...

In life there'll always be ups and downs... It's just a matter of whether you're strong enough to see what's up next. And your own personality belief, perception and mentality towards life.... Perhaps you'll ask even if I keep up long enough to see what's next, how would I know if it's for better or worse...? Well... I'll say on the long run it'll depends on what you do about it.....

Jfund SG

maybe u are happier being sad..u choose to be in this comfort zone so none of our advice will work..we cant control the things happening around us or to us. but we can control how we choose to react. u can wake up and choose to be happy, or choose to not wake up at all.