The problem is with my school... The school
make me have this problem and it is because of my work too...
mainly the school.. it makes me struck with these problems which I
cannot solve myself..
I try all the matters that is mentions above, it helps
me a while. But I will be back to the original problems. I will be
sad again..
It helps only a while because it doesn't tackle the
actual problem. The above methods are
merely distractions. Therefore, when you are
distracted, it merely helps you forget your problems with
school.
I am sad... I went through all the "shit" and this is
what i get. I did double the work , people get my
credit and I get a lousy grade and struck in a
shitty situation where I dun seen myself
developing and growing into a person I want to become.
I hate this life i am in. I am feeling sad.. As for my work,
there are no prospect... I feel like a failure...
Should i stay on to get my experiences. When I am in a very shitty
situation.
I AM FEELING VERY UPSET!!! whenever people seen my grade
or I seen my own... i am feeling UPSET AND SAD, because I
know all this subject , but my grade reflect so badly of
me... I am upset. I dun seen a further for myself... It
stick to me whole life...
People console me with never mind... BUT FUCKING HELL!!! IT IS
MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE... I REALLY HATE THE FEELING AND SITUATION I
AM IN>>>
>>>>>>>> VERY SAD AND
BLUE!!!!>>>>>>>>
Are you afraid of being judged? You said "my grade
reflect so badly of me". Does your family or
relatives and friends around you look at great school grades in
awe? Do you have something ambitious you want to achieve in your
lifetime that requires people to look up to you as some strong
character for help? What is it deep inside your heart that you
really want? Have you ask yourself? And is there really
only one way to go about achieving your dreams? Is it more
important for others to recognize you than for yourself to validate
you?
What is it that you really want? Are you
ashamed of yourself? Have you been made to feel ashamed of
yourself? Don't hide. It seems to me that you have not been in
honest touch with your true feelings. Pardon my presumptous
deduction, but what impresses other people may not be what you are
truly looking for deep down in your heart. Forget
about family, friends, relatives or societal expectations! If this
is exactly what you want for yourself, your mind and
heart would not have such agonizing
conflict. Let me give you an example. Several
years back, I used to find it demeaning when my dad suggest I go
into childcare. I thought a real woman of substance these days
would not stoop herself to such a lowly qualified job when she
could be out there pursuing a prestigious high-paying career.
Thinking back now, I realized, no matter what
qualifications one have or not, one shouldn't feel ashame to
venture into one's own interest. Only back then, I was too
snobbish (and I consider myself a very humble person) to have
even considered a career my dad suggested. Hence, in pursuit of
what people might be impressed by and acknowledged, I did not even
stop to think that I might really love to get in touch with the
children or not. 
Maybe it's because you feel trapped. You think
that in a mercenary society like this, we "need"
good grades and excellent career in order to move ahead, to pursue
"happiness". Well, that's usually the main objective in life isn't
it? To be happy! We fall in love in hope to find
happiness with our partner. We advance in our career or
upgrade ourselves by taking more courses, in hope to
provide more happiness to our loved one and
ourselves.
Ironically, this pursuit of "happiness" often leads us to the
very abyss of unhappiness. Not only that, many of us, lost in this
urban jungle, lost track of the reason WHY we are
frantically working so hard in the first place.
Therefore, I conclude, if you are not happy,
even if you managed to achieve the grades you desire, it
doesn't matter.
But how to be happy, you might ask. Well then, I guess, only you
will have the answer because only you will know what is important
to you. Is it to be able to enjoy the love and friendship with your
loved ones by just being yourself? Then I guess, you'll have to
find the right company to provide that. Not everyone gives us the
validation we need and it is within our own self-respect that we
decide to find the right friends who will acknowledge us instead of
putting us down constantly. Or is it making a worthwhile
contribution to society while you are still alive and healthy? Many
organizations are looking for volunteers and you'll be moved by the
delight you see on the faces of those being helped with only a
little that you do for them.
Originally posted by Jfund:
maybe u are happier being sad..u choose to be
in this comfort zone so none of our advice will work..we cant
control the things happening around us or to us. but
we can control how we choose to react. u can wake
up and choose to be happy, or choose to not wake up at all.
"maybe u are happier being
sad"
Subconsciously, this could also be your choice perhaps at this
junction where you do not know what to do.
So open up not only your eyes, but your heart. Ask yourself what
do you really want for your happiness. Remember, misery is only a
transition. This part of your life, is a growing platform, to
propel us in the direction, of the pursuit of happiness. 
