for a guy to ctrl lust, maybe he can start looking at gals like
a person instead of jus juggly boobs and nice wet puss n
mouth?learn about the person.
for a gal to ctrl lust..dun need lah..or or the lusty guys
survive??jus kiddin..
appreciate the other gender as a fellow person instead
of sth to satisfy sexual urges lor,
I think that's the main source of relationship problems these
day. In a modern world like this is, not many people would bat an
eyelid about sexual activities between couples, especially those
involved in a relationship. However, too much focus on sexual
intimacy in the budding of a relationship poses a big problem. That
is the understanding of each other.
You may feel like all's heaven when first starting out on a
relationship. The couple may even have great sex life. Then there
are also the people who believe "if never try, how you know he/she
will be sexually compatible once married"?
However, how many married couples have had great sex life before
they were married and then after getting married, only to have it
go downhills and their marriage on the rocks?
Countless examples. So the problem doesn't lie with the sex. It
lies with understanding each other. And this process takes time. In
marital surveys, the number one complaint is the feeling of not
being understood by one's partner. When a couple in a new
relationship focus on the sexual intimacy, no matter how loved one
may feel right now, it will eventually fade and go downhills once
conflict arises. And if they do not practice how to handle conflict
and understand what turns each other on and off (not the physical
aspect!), and what each other's quirky habits are, problems will
arise in future.
So learning how to control the lust aspect, is indeed
critical.
