I'm 21 and just returned to Singapore after graduating overseas.
For the past 5-6 years i've played around alot. I flirt around
alot, dated many girls, had many girlfriends/flings and slept
around a fair bit too. Yeah, probably the typical guy
most girls will call a jerk.
Lately, i'm starting to get sick of all the booze and partying,
and i've been looking for a steady girlfriend to sorta settle down
with. Not exactly thinking of getting married, but seeking someone
that I can click with and take care of (and vice versa).
A while back, there was this girl that I really liked. She liked
me too but she would not accept me as her partner because she said
she cannot afford another heartbreak. I've tried countless of times
to convince her that I'm serious but she would always end up crying
and telling me to leave her alone as I will just end up breaking
her heart. We're now over each other and we're good friends.
I met another girl 2 weeks ago, and i'm kinda facing the same
problem. My expectations are quite high and these 2 girls both fall
in the pretty/smart/mature/understanding category and are great
girls who are not easy to come by.
I
if u reali serious then show ur not a heartbreaker... be loyal to
them n they will see it......