what was she thinking?.. haiz..
i really need alot of help from you all.. i wanna hear different
views.
i really duno wat to do...
starring...
A<- my bf buddy
B<-that girls bf
That girl
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That girl.. Have bf already...
just last few month.. got to know her by "A"..
She suppose to act like a gf.. but NO!! she keep calling my bf..
ask my bf out
(includin "B" & "A".)
onli sometime would ask mi TAG along.. wth,, what was she
thinking..
it's been so long that i nv got a chance to spend with my
boyfriend because of them already now That girl.. keep appearing
into my life,my bf cant reject because i know he's a ok guy,in the
sense that ppl call him out he will no choice gotta say ok.. even
if his tired or have to wake up ealry next day.
I mean come on.. she already have a boyfriends,and act so sweety
pie infront of me with her boyfriend and always get chances to go
out with my boyfriend too. almost everytime going out.. she's the
one that keep smsing my boyfriend going where later.Go
clubbing.. Drinking.. and so on cause she want to play.
She keep catching everyones attention.. everything must follow
her way.
and suppose that girl is family With "A" & "B" cause they
are related.
although i feel so hurt and sad about all this.. i cant tell my
bf how i feel cuz i will think that he will think i'm over reacted.
haiz.. i cried so many time in my room.
i've never been so mad before.. this the 1st time i'm exprience
this.i dont wan comfront or break up with my guy because of
her...
Haiz
What can i do to hate that girl even more?
In life, Always choose the decision that will bring you
happiness and not frustrations.
You always have the right and the power to say "NO" if you know
that joining them in their outing will only bring you grieve. But
NEVER let anyone know that you do not want to join them because of
that girl, cos that won't be correct anyway. You just need some
time away to restore and recover your dampen spirits.
Don't join the fight for attention if you know that you
can't win. Instead, take this opportunity to take a step backwards
and observe them. In doing so will not only prevents you from
feeling worse, it will also makes it easier for you to understand
them.
If you have no choice but have to join them for the sake of your
bf, then please make sure you outdress that girl. This is to help
you to feel more confident of yourself when you're out with her and
your bf.
You won't lose your bf unless he himself wants out of the
relationship with you. 
