I Hate That girl

parn SG

Well.. if it's not meant to be... it's not meant to be. Forcing love never works.

How can we determine that if we don't help them to rescue their relationship first?

jojobeach SG

How can we determine that if we don't help them to rescue their relationship first?

It's not up to us forumers to determine their relationship.

We can only provide different points of view.. and share some experience.

Ultimately.. it's up to TS to decide what deems fit and do what she needs to do.

Giving her sugar coated advises isn't really doing her a favor.

Hwaimeng SG

boys are like that 1 lah

the more girls want to stick to them the more they feel tehy are more handsome

maybe yr BF is waiting for more choices to see which is better

if i got many girls wan to stick to me

no matter how tired im i always will tru to go out 1

aHGer^83 SG

wah dam long nvr hear tt nick liao. haha.

wah niao... since when i stop calling u piakster???

anywa u dun off-topic other ppls topic lor... our chat stops here....

00king00 SG

which guy won't like to enjoy the attention of another person, esp if she's a gal?

u need to let yr bf know how u are feeling, bottling up is no use at all. u 2 are a couple, moreover if yr bf is the "nice" type u are talking about, both shld be able to resolve the issue by talking it out

right now he doesn't know that his friendship wif this gal is causing u so much distress, so u better let him know

gd luck, hope u 2 can work it out

lovelypink SG

wuoo wuoooo wuoooo... thank guys... i've read each of it clearly to clear my doutbs...

1stly i wanna to sae thanks you are for telling mi the goods and the bads

jojobeach

but the way is like 25? 26? 27 maybe.... does she still have a chance with my bf? we are onli in early 20s.. i'm not sure if she's interested in getting hook up wit my bf cuz everybody knows me and my bf are together for so long already... but the only thing is the way she do things..

-call my bf at times..

-sms my bf.. just ytd.. mi my bf and his buddy were outside having fun.. hanging around.. she thickerning face go sms my bf for duno wat reason (dun stay up too late ooh) thou my bf reply (lol ok)

OMG!!! that shit is this man... who the fish she think she is.... and yet... her bf was out wit us too lei... OMG!! i just wanna puke....

love kitty

sorry to hear that.. but thanks for telling mi too... i reali dun wan end wit my bf becuz of that girl.. reali not my type but like i say.. is the way she do things... if thing gets worst.. i'll let my nf knows and see how it goes lo...

aHGer^83

thanks for your comments... if things really get worst.. i'll really duno wat i'll do...you all may sae i'm evil but i'll make sure she pay for it.. and regret for those hurtful thing she done to mi for the rest of her life. i'll let everyone know.... haiz... omg.. i reali cannot imagine that dae coming... i hope not...

trendz

ya.. u'll see headline news the nxt dae.. hahaha.. no la... i wun do silly thing.. like i sae eariler...

i'll bloody make her understand how i feel men...

this is the 1st time i get face to face this type of girl.. i alwasy heard my frz saying but in the end... end up having 1.. haiz.. i gotta deal wit it myself...

parn<->jojobeach

there no need to quarrel becuz of my problem de k... i know somethinkin will not be the same...yups... it's up to me to decide what deems fit and do what i'll needs to do...

you all the reply is reali very appricaite by mi... and i just wanna hear different point of views..

Hwaimeng

ya i agree.. same wit girls too... human nature.. haiz...

but that way age is way way way far frm us.. but if my bf loves it...

let mi found out... reali no choice.. haiz... i oso cant do anything...

just hope not... and juz wish that girl knowledgable abit lo.. haiz...

00king00

i think os of that b4... but i oso think tat maybe the way the girl is doin.. is a normal things for them... but maybe i'm quite a protective type so i cant ta han this thing but yups.. if reali thing gone reali bad...

i dun give face already..

hmmmmm thanks everyone for you comments...

this is the 1st time i'm exprience this and unluckly.. happen to mi...

so i duno how to reacts..

conclusion is...

i still hate that girl

her appearing,cause my brain to explode.. my heart to breaks.. my tears to falls... thanks to her.... i grew stronger... and I WANNA BATTLE...

after much consideration....

she do 1... i do x15

and each time... i CANT wait to see her... to see wat else she's up to..

i'm dying to see it and smile.....

fymk SG

Have you even spoken to her yet? Some girls are close to guys as in being their buddies. I am close to a heck lot of guys. I make sure that I have a courtesy to talk to the girlfriends, make them my friends, ask them out when their bf is out with me and reassure them that I am no competition for their guy's attention or affection. Some however have an unsavory intention of pulling your bf away from you under the guise of "friendship".

Sit down and talk to her first .

Make it clear to your bf and her ( talk to one alone at a time) that you are not comfortable with the situation. When I say make it clear , say it out " I don't like her behaviour around you at the moment . I find her etc etc . This is how I feel ". Target the situation and behaviour - not the person.

If your bf respects your feelings, he will try to compromise or stay off her for abit.

If the girl is not some slut , she will minimise contact with your boyfriend or at least talk to you first.

Even younger girls don't want to try snatching my guy from me , I make sure that they know I can be a straight up b*tch who can give them hell on earth and they keep away from my dates or interests.

jojobeach SG

wuoo wuoooo wuoooo... thank guys... i've read each of it clearly to clear my doutbs...

1stly i wanna to sae thanks you are for telling mi the goods and the bads

jojobeach

-call my bf at times..

-sms my bf.. just ytd.. mi my bf and his buddy were outside having fun.. hanging around.. she thickerning face go sms my bf for duno wat reason (dun stay up too late ooh) thou my bf reply (lol ok)

OMG!!! that shit is this man... who the fish she think she is.... and yet... her bf was out wit us too lei... OMG!! i just wanna puke....

love kitty

aHGer^83

trendz

ya.. u'll see headline news the nxt dae.. hahaha.. no la... i wun do silly thing.. like i sae eariler...

i'll bloody make her understand how i feel men...

this is the 1st time i get face to face this type of girl.. i alwasy heard my frz saying but in the end... end up having 1.. haiz.. i gotta deal wit it myself...

parn<->jojobeach

there no need to quarrel becuz of my problem de k... i know somethinkin will not be the same...yups... it's up to me to decide what deems fit and do what i'll needs to do...

you all the reply is reali very appricaite by mi... and i just wanna hear different point of views..

Hwaimeng

ya i agree.. same wit girls too... human nature.. haiz...

but that way age is way way way far frm us.. but if my bf loves it...

let mi found out... reali no choice.. haiz... i oso cant do anything...

just hope not... and juz wish that girl knowledgable abit lo.. haiz...

00king00

i dun give face already..

hmmmmm thanks everyone for you comments...

this is the 1st time i'm exprience this and unluckly.. happen to mi...

so i duno how to reacts..

conclusion is...

i still hate that girl

her appearing,cause my brain to explode.. my heart to breaks.. my tears to falls... thanks to her.... i grew stronger... and I WANNA BATTLE...

after much consideration....

she do 1... i do x15

and each time... i CANT wait to see her... to see wat else she's up to..

i'm dying to see it and smile.....

Don't worry about me and parn.. we are females.. unlike males... we don't have an ego the size of an elephant.

Parn and me can be partners in crime.. we don't always have to agree with each other.. but most important ... is that we can french kiss each other when we need to.

And don't let age fool you. Some women likes younger guys.

Since you are new to the bgr arena.. you havn't learn how to guard your turf yet.

There will be many more bitches in your long road ahead with a nice guy.. and bitches like her will always want to come piss on your nicely manicured turf... get what I mean ?

I'm wonderin... since that girl's bf is with you when that girl sms your bf... how come you never say anything to her bf ?

Ya know.. like " wow.. I didn't know your gf likes to sms other men so much." ...

I mean.. C'mon lor.. any respectable guy will feel insulted when his own gf openly flirt with another guy, somemore with his own friends leh.

Then you can casually ask that girl's bf... like " Eh.. you don't mind your gf frequently sent msg to other guys meh ?"

Then you just sit back and watch the show lor.

Unless this guy is so balless.. then cannot blame lah. But then if this is the case... I'm sure your bf probably seem like a better man than her own bf. Then ofcors she wants to steal your bf.

thebunny SG

"(dun stay up too late ooh) thou my bf reply (lol ok)"

omgomgomg =S If I were u, I would be angry too.

I think for girls, it's natural to react this way!

This is like wat gf would say to bf =S!!!!

But some boys just don't understand.

Sighs. Gd luk!!!

If he ever dumps u for tt girl, just await for the day when they break. =S... because history will repeat.

hahahahax. I'm so evil. xD

lovelypink SG

Chris1988 SG

hi lovely,

i'm honestly wondering what's with "that girl"'s bf? you should honestly confront her bf and inform him about the situation.

the way things are going for you, it seems like you're heading for the ditch. you don't trust your bf, you hate tt biatch. if you ain't gonna do something but just sit around and cry out loud, we don't wish to see you posting another thread saying tt you broke up 'cause of tt biatch.

lovely, do yourself a favour and stand up for yourself. don't lose out to tt biatch in any aspects. from what i see your bf reply to her is probaly out of courtesy. "lol ok". people who use "lol" often signifies they dunno what to say so just "lol". believe me older men don't like their woman to keep smsing them and disturb them.

i wish you luck in your r/s but don't take things too seriously. as jojo said, love shouldn't be forced. if he's not 'the one', don't bother and go look for a better one.

thebunny SG

Sighs. Some guys just DON'T understand the fact that their gf needs attention as well.

=S.... They think "friend friend" wat... "friend friend" only mahx... but then... nv consider girl's feelings?....

I wonder how will ur bf feel if the situation turns around.

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