Thanks! (",)
I guess that's what I wanted when that nearly 'fateful' incident
happened two yrs plus ago.
Thinking on the bright side, he did have that mentality of
confronting my friend half a year later.
Sad to say, he will never appreciate.
Foregoing my chances of overseas study and overseas work
attachment, to him, it's something I should do in order to
'continue' this relationship. He felt there's always give and take;
I have to give up all the opportunities in order to 'appreciate'
his love.
To join in his family gatherings is something I should do
because his bro-in-law also joins in their gatherings.
No matter how his family demands me to do things, demands
things from me, including taking the pda I jus bought, I
have to give in, including bearing all the non-sensical insults.
FYI, they don't call my by name, they call me by my address -
the block number. He doesn't stop them and felt it's ok that
they call me that.
On the other hand, he seldom joins in my family gatherings;
he doesn't come my place often either; reason, he's afraid
my mum will grill her on how's treating me.
Funny?
He doesn't send me to my doorstep to make sure I am safe,
no matter how late it is, he send me to the block beside
mine. Reason - He said he's lazy and tired. On the
bright side, there's at least an 'improvement'. He used to jus drop
me off at the carpark and I walked back myself, my block isn't
connected to the carpark; it could be 4am, but still, ps walk back
urself.
My 5 years-old niece cried and insists on buying a
soft toy, costing 20 bucks, when we brought her out, he
said she's a spoilt brat, that we all spoilt her rotten because her
parents had passed away in an accident. FYI, my sis and bro-in-law
died in a car accident when my niece was still young.
But, his 13yr old bro, cries and shouts and screams and
jumps up and down when we don't get him the whole series
of game cards, costing about 50 bucks, he said my bro is only 13
yrs old, he's still young, he's not spoilt, jus young, not
matured yet, don't know how to think.
Are all guys like that? Or mine is just simply a 'special
case'?
I do feel scare; not whether he'll leave or not, but are
really all guys like that? I do have a
phobia~~
nope definitely not all guys r like tat... if all the talk fails, u
reali should lose this guy.... hes not worth it.... better ones out
there[wif a better family too]...
