Just need to rant it out!

last SG · 2008-07-06T11:54:28+00:00

People dont get selected just because they put 100% in training.You need the skills oso mah! ya ya, need the skill and oso hor, u must agree with me, u need...

thongs SG

Seriously right now, i really cant sleep. Freaking frustrated and disappointed. I am in a sports cca and team selection for compeition has been made and tmr would be the annoucement. Even though i put in much effort, go for extra training and stuff like tat, i still lose to those with 4 to 5 years of experience in sec sch.

High chance would be i wont be in the team due to my lousiness and also others tat are too good but only come for one training, seriously i mean one due to having experience.

Now i have learnt one thing, commitment means nth, skills and experience is all that count, think i m doomed. I really put in alot of effort, coming home late at midnite, due to training ending late, tutorials not done, sleeping in lecture due to lack of sleep, projects all asked my frens to cover my part.

All these comes to nth, just a try again next year. I think i m quitting, forget about it and move on with life.

Thanks for hearing me out, really appreciate it.

poobum SG

suck it up, you little wuss.

LatecomerX SG

Take it easy. The announcement is not even out and you're looking down on yourself already.

Those who have a similar CCA during their secondary education would definitely gain an upper hand in getting into the competition. Who knows, maybe they have committed as much time as you do into their CCA while they were still secondary students. But as the Chinese always say, "学如逆水行舟，不进则退". If they actually don't bother to turn up for any more practice sessions, thumbs up for you - you're one big step closer to beating them this year, if not next year.

Just ask yourself, are you really passionate about your CCA? Because no one would give up what they love just because of the obstacles they face in pursuit of their dreams. If, say, you've just joined a CCA about playing DotA. Then your team got pwned by another who has played it for 5 years and they were like gulping coke and munching pizzas while they cleared your team. You don't say "zzz. we too n00bs le. tio pwnzor by pr0s sia. i wan quit dota liao sio.", but look forward to the next match, hoping to defeat them with lots of training in between.

I wish you all the best.

thongs SG

suck it up, you little wuss.

when similiar situation happen to u, i see how u suck it up

Free angel66 SG

w/o committment comes no experience. so u give up nw, isnt it a slap back at urself? those who r chosen had given their fair share of committment in e past.

thongs SG

train so hard, just to play at final year, then its goodbye to the sports, i think i have just wasted my 1 year +, seems like its gone case for me. thanks everyone.

angel7030 SG

train so hard, just to play at final year, then its goodbye to the sports, i think i have just wasted my 1 year +, seems like its gone case for me. thanks everyone.

It ok, at least you tried, and you trained yourself, healthy and fit, it a gain for you, it only a sport, take it as an exercise for you. You learn to take disappointment as part of life, nobody life is in pink all the time, sometime it turns grey, but then with a good mentality and determination, we can alway turn it pink, it all up in your mind. Be happy ya.

xiiaostarry SG

@ least u tried ur best mah~ cheer up~

thongs SG

yes i tried and i failed totally, everything is a flop, neglected my studies, in the end i have nth

BadzMaro SG

Zai Jie Zai Li.

Its a lesson, that is telling you , you are not as good as u think u are. Now you know liaw. Never say die.

thongs SG

i think its better to give up now then having even more disappointment next year

angel7030 SG

i think its better to give up now then having even more disappointment next year

U hv to be objectives, meaning you have to weight the pros and cons, what is chances you will be selected next years?, are there any other areas u need to improve? Are there other opportunities else where? Do you have better important things to do, like studying or taking up other sports? Ask yourself truthfully before quitting ya.

Cheers

Fatum SG

how many years of effort have you put in ? .....

and how many years of training and effort and dedication those who're already in this in secondary school have put in ? .....

so now you're giving up already ? .... maybe you really don't deserve it at all ....

Fs4751 SG

train so hard, just to play at final year, then its goodbye to the sports, i think i have just wasted my 1 year +, seems like its gone case for me. thanks everyone.

by training u gain stamina..so by looking at it, i think u have not wasted anything..in fact u gain something....a healthy body, stamina, and most of all endurance...

Herzog_Zwei SG

Take it easy. The announcement is not even out and you're looking down on yourself already.

I wish you all the best.

You havn't heard my story yet about my high school cousin who was owned by a total primary school noob in DoTA despite training weekends for a whole year.

xavier1979 SG

It sucks, but life is unfair. That's why some people suffer more than others.

When you have a goal in mind, stick to it. Go all the way.

If you think you're not good, train harder. Enroll in competition to get exposure. Compete with the best. No one is an accomplished sportsman/sportswoman at birth.

Believe in what you want. Never say give up so easily. You'll achieve what you want one day.

mamamamama SG

work smart, not hard.

i ask you who would the boss appreciate more..

1) employee A works 12 hours a day but can only help the company generate $500 revenue

2) employee B works 6 hours a day but can help the company generate $50000 revenue

you say your boss pick which one leh?

angel7030 SG

work smart, not hard.

i ask you who would the boss appreciate more..

1) employee A works 12 hours a day but can only help the company generate $500 revenue

2) employee B works 6 hours a day but can help the company generate $50000 revenue

you say your boss pick which one leh?

Sori to interrupt, if I am the boss, i will choose 2, provided i can convince worker B to work another 6 hrs for me to make it $100000, i dun mind paying him OT.

thongs SG

i m really not selected, i think i might just jump off my house. I really fell to the very btm, its hard to pick upself up, i am afraid i m going to fail again

Daisuke-kun SG

come on man!

don't let that get to u.

suicide is not an option.

death is a one time oppurtunity.

u can have it anytime in the future.

why do u want it now?

just smile :D

smile, smile.

i'm feeling down now too but i'm smiling to make life seems livelier.