Hey, thanks for all the replies. I'm a girl BTW. I'm not fat or
ugly even though I don't do sports. Maith is right about this topic
being self-pwnage and I could definitely use the time to sort out
my problems. How I wish I was still having my school break! When I
was working, I actually talked to people and almost become friends
with them but we didn't have an excuse to meet after the work is
done and everybody is back with their own lives!
I don't cycle, go bowling, play pool/DOTA and I guess
friendships are formed through such common interests. I used to
enjoy being in my own company and I wish I could stay that way but
reality has caught up with me and I realise what a weirdo I must
look like in the eyes of society doing everything alone....Other
than that, I might even seem normal to you until you realise that
I've life. >.<
you're a girl,sorry about that. But its even more weird,i
thought girls always have a group of friends to hang out with?
Anyway u said "we didn't have an excuse to meet after the work
is done and everybody is back with their own lives!" and i dont
think that is true.
What im trying to say is you need to ask ppl out,dont wait for
the other parties to ask. They are probably thinking about the same
thing too,like "if got someone ask me to go out with him/her,i
will. But if no one ask,then i'll just stay home alone lor"
you should,like what some of the post said,take the first step
instead of waiting for others.
U said u're neither fat nor ugly,then dont be afraid! Ask one or
two friends out together and just window shop,study or just have
fun!
N btw,there's no such thing as friendships are formed through
common interests. U dont need friends to have the same interests as
you to be friends! Heck it would be even better if u dont have the
same interests as ur friends! I mean,u could like share ur hobbies
and stuff to them and they can share their interests with u as
well!
Ok? :D
