We're involved in the church so we can't change it though. My
girlfriend sings for our choir too. So does A. I mean, there was
two rich guys that offered to marry my gf. Really rich guys, and
she rejected it because of me, and also her own values because she
is not the type that goes for money. Isn't that worse than the
situation with A? Shouldn't I be the one making noise since they
want to marry her? So how come I could deal with it but my gf
can't?
Yea my gf told me she knows girls and what they do. She did tell
me once that she somehow felt bad because somehow she feels A
doesn't deserve being ignored by me and being talked about by her.
But my gf said she feels very strongly that A is trying to get my
attention. A talks very loudly and always glances at me according
to my gf, and she finds this behaviour very "annoying and
obnoxious". And she has some idea that I actually deep down love
A.
Its just that I feel if something is meant to be, then it will
happen. If it doesn't, it doesn't. My gf finds that quite
unreliable because she said come a situation where I need to fight
for the relationship, I won't do a thing. But if the relationship
is meant to be, then there won't be such a situation right.
How do girls see this anyway? and the fellas too?