looking my ex gal fren at BSS

jojobeach SG

Think only la , can la .

why cannot think ? A bit of fantasy can la .... although dun turned it into a reality .

Who , or which mankind , don't remember sweet memories ?

bro , quite normal , i support u .

I also once in a while recall those sweet memories with my ex .

I even show my mrs.poolman my letters from my ex before we broke off , my mrs.poolman knn jealous sia , knn damn song to see her jealous .

I alwasy tell mrs.poolman one philosophy , the one u love might not be the one u married to .

I always tell my friends , my wife is not the one i love most in my life , it's my ex !

So quite normal for a married man to have these sort of fantasy , speaking from experience la .

Wah you treat your wife like this ah ?

You wait hor.. soon your wife will tell you she fantasy about her ex.

Everytime you make love to her.. she actually thinking of her ex, imagining he is the one farking her.. .. yes.. she also very song !

So you love your ex so much.. why you never marry your ex ? Because you kena dumped by the ex...? I say.. your ex very smart woman. But your wife is stupid.

798 SG

chu lian is the most unforgetable experience. i can understand TS's feeling.

Detached SG

Those objection vote from those forumites , all very naive , all from the book , until u people got married , then u all will know . Now never married , can talk like real , wait til u all kena same fate , u will remember what u wrote here is all like movies script .

What insolence.

The rule of thumb is that you're entitled to your opinion; that is your birthright and nobody can take it from you. But the entitlement does not extend to offensive remarks targeted at others.

So learn to speak what is necessary and shut the gap up when it's time to.

V Peace.

Midlusionz SG

Think only la , can la .

why cannot think ? A bit of fantasy can la .... although dun turned it into a reality .

Who , or which mankind , don't remember sweet memories ?

bro , quite normal , i support u .

I also once in a while recall those sweet memories with my ex .

I even show my mrs.poolman my letters from my ex before we broke off , my mrs.poolman knn jealous sia , knn damn song to see her jealous .

I alwasy tell mrs.poolman one philosophy , the one u love might not be the one u married to .

I always tell my friends , my wife is not the one i love most in my life , it's my ex !

So quite normal for a married man to have these sort of fantasy , speaking from experience la .

..... *speechless*

BotaHead SG

cant forget her?

firstly i think u have to know what is human nature. today they tell u they only want to hear your voice and see u but after some time they will want more. human desire has no limitation.

here is the advice, dont even start it, let this pas relationship of your be one of your happy memories

Short Ninja SG

I dont know about you guys but when I think back about my first gf from secondary school days I feel like want to puke.Teenage relationships are pathetic but its about leaning also.

Midlusionz SG

Then why get married in the first place?

Hanagata SG

Then why get married in the first place?

coz he is thinking with his dick head... and not the real head...

nehpyh SG

Well the fact that she didn't contact him or update him with her contact and status is obvious...

I shall dedicate this song to you; Kylie Minogue's Can't Get You Outta My Head!!!!

w.eikaas SG

She i probably your puppy lover - first love. First love is very difficult to forget - you think about it, you dream about it. But at the end of the day, its all in your mind, truly. Treasure what you have because what you are craving for - your ex-girl, is all but fantasy. Females (no offence to all females) are all the same, sweet loving and kind in marriage... plus all the qualities you don't like or like in the marriage. So in brief, move on! think all you want, dream all you want, But ultimately, the present is the most precious. be thankful

S271008 SG

definitely cannot get it outta head .. i am ok now compare to 3 days ago ....went to gym yesterday and overdo it...vomitted soon after... memories like tis cannot be easily forgotten. i just wanna know that she is OK and still look as good as before. i know my family comes first and have no intention of breaking up both families, just wanna tell her i am still the same old me ... i lost all contacts of her, i just got this feeling that someday i will meet her again in tampines of course. Tis Sat it will be10 May 2008, and its my birthday, and way way back on that same day she gave me a hankerchief with a letter 'Y'. I still have it with me. look at it yesterday and man!....cannot concentrate at work today...agree human desire no limitation, but it can be control.

nehpyh SG

bro...i sarpok you as long as you can keep it pure....and i think most will sarpok you too....KEEP IT PURE!

RedizAlertz SG

Stop thinkin u are a romeo or something. Get a life. Some pple are meant to appear in ur life for a short period of time & they are gone. Stop looking back now.

ShrodingersCat SG

who don't have memories?

Think is think, fantasize is fantasize.

but when you lose your grip on the reality of what you have and is constantly comparing it with what you don't - then I think basically what this is telling you, is that your current situation have not satisfied you.

Who's the one who make the choices that led to the current situation? You.

I find it sad that you seem so proud to tell your wife and your friends that she is your second choice. It just goes to show that after the failure of your first choice, you could not make a better choice for the second relationship.

I don't know which is worse - the sadness of a wife who knows she is second choice, or the man who forever condemned himself to a second rate marriage.

4getmenot SG

Dun think you are the only forumite here being married has a 'bigger life experience' to generalise that all who objected 'got it all from the book lar' and that you know whats right and whats wrong...wait till your partner one day meets her long lost darling and daydreams about meeting and talking to him again.. i wonder how u will react tat time.. hope to see your post here then....but last thing you'll expect from me would be sympathy ....... :P my ex gf marry and also have baby liao, i also dun kachio her anymore.. its called respecting ones choice...no need to kaypor so much, if she needs me, she'll know how to contact me..not the vice versa ok? ..

you show Mrs Poolman your ex gf love letters and feel so song to see her jealous..? wah...this point already is enuff for me to generalise what kind of poolman u are...

Midlusionz SG

Memories are called memories for a reason.

Undertakerpoppin SG

It has been like more than 20years during my secondary 4 days and i am still thinking about my ex-gal fren. Our relationship was very short. Lets call her Hana A. Last I heard she is married and have a daughter. 4-5 years ago, we met at Tampines MRT and I am able to email her and talked to her at her office. Somehow all is now gone. It stopped just like that. I remembered giving her 2 books for her to study on EXCEL. I really am looking for her to see and talk to her. I just could not help it, day and night been thinking of her. The feeling is not to start a relationship but to just to see her face and hear her sweet voice.

I am married now with kids but my mind is very disturbed and cannot forget her. I tried to tell myself that she is somebody else but my mind refused to accept it. Hope Hana will happen to read this.

did u fuk wit her?

S271008 SG

helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! wrong person! Time is running out liao, Monday going to Perth. To stay with sister and see how can I talk to her into renting a room and working for her company. Wanna be away from all this memories that is contaminating my mind ... What if I cannot forget it once I'm there?

RedizAlertz SG

Sometimes life is jus like a movie script, perhaps minus out the dramatic effects.

U may b married, but seems like it still doesnt make u any wiser. If our advices here are like movie script, then urs is like a bad comedy show. Shallow & nothing constructive but it's laugh-able.

Gosu. SG

chu lian is the most unforgetable experience. i can understand TS's feeling.

True to the statement, I can't forget my first-love even though I have already gotten a definitely all-round better girl-friend.

Refrain from flaming each other, everyone has their own POVs and neither is wrong.

TS feels what he feels and it is only deemed socially wrong, some people can accept it, some people can't, some people accept it only when they have dealt with it.

TS has pm'd me with appreciation and I believe that anyone who can appreciate, deserves advice, not flame.

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