looking my ex gal fren at BSS

last SG · 2008-05-06T23:12:19+00:00

helo i am the one looking for ex-gf here ... not PM! Anyway yesterday, saw someone resembles like my ex at Tampines Interchange. Rushed closer and damn! w...

Zarks SG

too bad. TS, even though u cant help urself to think bout her, but previously your ex expecting u to chase her when the gal said she loved u more than her. Clearly u never understand your ex.

And its so obvious that you dont have strong love to your ex? and now u wanted to see her back after 20 years ? Cmon. Yes, u cant help it but please follow your brain once.

S271008 SG

Jo/Zarks,

true very true. i was young and naive back then. going back, remember she saying that she rejected 2 guys, dunno what it meant to me at that time but now regret never taking it seriously!!!!

jojobeach SG

Jo/Zarks,

true very true. i was young and naive back then. going back, remember she saying that she rejected 2 guys, dunno what it meant to me at that time but now regret never taking it seriously!!!!

Regret also useless.. Now she is someone else's wife.. you are someone else's husband.

You think about it lor.. you want to break up 2 family ?

You are a man yourself.. you should know how her husband will react if he finds out the trysts.

You claim that you still love... her.

If you don't want to ruin her life.. the best thing you can do is to leave her alone.

Irresponsible you are .....thinking only of yourself eh ?

blowfish SG

think of your wife that goes through the pain to born you children…. u darm jerk.

nehpyh SG

Let's do some math here:

Assuming you were 20 when you first met her - duration of your relationship = 10 yrs max.

Assuming your kid is 10 now and your relationship with your wife = 20 + 10 +10 = 40 years and counting.

You are trading 10 years with 40 years?

You are a sad sod, cos for the past 20 years with your wife, you are being anal. For the last 10 years with Hana, you were anal as well cos you missed the chance.

Therefore, you have been anal for a possible 40 years period.

Now that you are so anal, what makes you think that your lust is real and valid? My take is, it's another anal emotion.

So just stay here and whine please. And dun stray.

noahnoah SG

how come tampines always got such cases one

so weird one leh

anyway be faithful

lar

once u married, no turning back liaoo

haha that explain why single is gooodd

jojobeach SG

Because life in Sg is too boring.

t_a_s SG

my ex g/f married to amg moh, sometime i think back can not tahan , may be ang moh, tua ki .

Gosu. SG

? I totally know how he feels, it’s just that his relationship did not have an ending, as if it died off and he’s lingering with the what-ifs.

It’s potentially marriage-threatening, but being at his age, perhaps he’d be matured enough to manage it in a logical and a married-man-oriented-way to steer out of any trouble.

ShrodingersCat SG

three words - sum xi xi...

what u don't have always make u want it more

but wait till u lose what u have.. then mebbe 10 years later.. u will be back in the forum... saying.. "looking for my wife, who left me cos she found out I was looking for my ex gf....".. ba bla bla"

don't give yourself excuses like you still love your wife... tempted say so lah.

JerryYan SG

how come tampines always got such cases one

so weird one leh

anyway be faithful

lar

once u married, no turning back liaoo

haha that explain why single is gooodd

think tampines got that charm maybe

i also think of ex-bf from 20 yrs ago, ytd thought of calling him but lucky i nvr

dcx SG

I suppose you didn't manage to bed her....regretted? Now wana taste the "forbidden fruit" which you didn't have the chance to taste at that time?

hurhurhur~~~

Melbournite SG

I think the man is not into sex. Why would he after 20 years, such a long time have sexual thoughts about her of a sudden?

Maybe its true love..Chance meetings will rekindle old memories.

Hello Kitty SG

u r such a sickenin farker.

Melbournite SG

he;s a narcisstic personality i guess.

4getmenot SG

TS ... u got kids and she got kids...so y bother? your intention is clear enuff.. pls dun bring trouble to your own and others family... s'pore divorce rate already high enuff..dun make it any higher...

mancha SG

Forget it lah.

She got her life, and her family. You are just being selfish. Concerned only for your own gratification. And that's dangerous.

You will say its nothing.

Exchange contact numbers, start calling, start talking, cannot stop, cannot give up. Now already you like that, super charged, when you get her number, can you control yourself? Do you want to say it is all fated that both your families should suffer.

Poolman SG

Think only la , can la .

why cannot think ? A bit of fantasy can la .... although dun turned it into a reality .

Who , or which mankind , don't remember sweet memories ?

bro , quite normal , i support u .

I also once in a while recall those sweet memories with my ex .

I even show my mrs.poolman my letters from my ex before we broke off , my mrs.poolman knn jealous sia , knn damn song to see her jealous .

I alwasy tell mrs.poolman one philosophy , the one u love might not be the one u married to .

I always tell my friends , my wife is not the one i love most in my life , it's my ex !

So quite normal for a married man to have these sort of fantasy , speaking from experience la .

Poolman SG

Those objection vote from those forumites , all very naive , all from the book , until u people got married , then u all will know . Now never married , can talk like real , wait til u all kena same fate , u will remember what u wrote here is all like movies script .

Poolman SG

This one not agony la , more to fantasy .

It's a joyful thing ...don't be agonised by it .

To a more serious note , must draw a line la , ok bro ?

Talk-on-phone a while , email , msn , messenger , all can la ..... drink coffee , eat lunch , go shopping , can la .... see movie , can also la .... Except going to Hotel 81 , NO !!!

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