He did not admit about his affair. He still denying. They have
went for trips overseas without my knowledge. But I found the
itinerary and hotel receipt. He still denies they slept in the same
room. He very cunning and good in twisting words.
I can't proof anything cos there is nothing on the hotel
receipt. But when a man and woman travel, what can they do
except S**????
He never even brings me for holidays. I have to save every
single cent I have to pay off his debts which we have incurred over
the years. And he still don't appreciate it! He used to be jobless
for a few years, then finally found a job last year.
This job pays him quite well, so now he has the $$$ to fool
around!
I have been wanting to divorce him since last year, cos of his
attitude. He has a attitude problem. Very unreasonable guy. Always
thinks he is right. Never care for our daughter. Even though when
she is sick, he never bothers to go and see her. Then comes back
late at night. I have been tolerating him cos of the kid.
But this time, he too much! He brings the woman back home! I
suppose it has been going on for more than 1 year!
That's why i had a talk with him. I told him i want to divorce
him, but I want my 2 kids. He will never admit to his affair. Even
his family are telling me to close 1 eye. How to????
His family will ofcors tell you to close one eye to his
misdeeds. Because they are HIS family, and that's what a family do
for each other. So, don't let what his family says affect you.
What is most important now, is YOUR own family. You need support
from YOUR own family, not his.
No doubt he has dissapointed you. And no doubt his doings is
unfair. It is time you decide what is best for you and your
children. Take it that you owe him during your previous life, and
now you have repaid your debt.
Divorce is not a means of punishments for his misdeeds, it is a
last resort to your own exit from your unhappy marriage to this
man.
Remember, it is not wise to poison the children with your hatred
for this man.
What is his intention after your confrontation ? Is he still
keen on making the marriage work ?
Some times... when a man denies his affairs, he is afraid that
if he confesses , he will lose his love ones.
