Dear Elim20.
I'm sorry to hear of the developments in your life.
As pointed out by jojo, save for negative factors that you may
not have revealed, I would not worry too much about custody
issues.
Further, as mentioned by viciouskitty, there is NO requirement
that you show evidence of him making out with the girl in bed. I have not encountered
a single case (of the few I had been engaged with) where proof of
sexual activities as they occured were ever presented before the
court. I am confident that photos of them being intimate in public,
or entering-exiting a motel is sufficient. Fact is, if your claim
is not rebutted in the AEIC (although I would suspect that a
competent defendant and/or his counsel would would you to the
burden of proof), such may be more than sufficient.
By virtue that you are represented by counsel, I would not give
heed to any of my above legal comments nor would I bother with
those provided by others. I would, however, be very cautious of
what I post on the forum if I were in your position.
Thanks for all your advises. I really appreciate it.
It'ts really touching to know there are people who cares...
:)
I trusted him a lot. Maybe I was too naive and stupid. Thinking
that he will change for the better for me and the kid. Before
marriage, he wasn't like that. Or maybe its due to that time he did
not have $, so he could not do anything funny. But now the
situation is different. He is loaded with $$$!! Do all man fool
around when they have $$$?
Yes, I have the support from my family. But none of my friends
know what I am going thru now. I find it shameful to tell them,
altough it was my husband who did me wrong first.
I really want a divorce now. But having diffculty gathering
evidence.
My lawyer says she will fight for monthly maintenance of 2k for
me and the kid. For the housing, most likely i will get 70%. I
going to make him pay more! Since he told me $ is of no issue to
him!
Now i have to find out more about the PI and custody of my kids.
I hope the judge won't separate us!!!
