To begin with her life is really going to be a complicated one.
There are a lot of unknown facts and pages to be filled. Looking at
her will be looking at several sets of accounts of a typical
Chinese business - you just don't know which one is the actual one.
I think there are endless stories and news about them, sad to say
these news are spectacular from another perspective. So, which
leads to the inevitable question - Who is she really? Also, the job
she is holding at the moment is really very questionable.
Having said the above, I think much is left at your end. What do
you intend to do with yourself? What are your feelings for her?
Love or Pity? Do you see yourself as a redeemer here than a lover?
Can you afford to support her? Can you take whatever "shit" that
may come? Can you pay that price - ultimate sacrifice? Are you
broad minded enough? I think you will need to sit down and really
come to terms with yourself before you venture out. I know of
friends who thought that it was love and thought he could bring a
better world to them - a redeemer. Yes, they are married to this
day but I cannot say the words of a fairy tale ending - "And
they live happily ever after." - as they have yet to complete their
lives journey. But, let me warn you of a redeemer who ended up
crucified and forsaken - that my friend will be the ultimate price.
Can you afford it? If you cannot at any one of the above questions,
then I suggest you do not take a step further
Today, you are doubting if she is dating other clients. What
about tomorrow and the times to come? I think I do not have to
spell out any further, the longer she remains in that environment
and work, the more complicated it will be for the both of you.
Just my 2 cents worth.
