I was in the cab to meet my boyfriend the other day and i count
myself unlucky for meeting the taxi driver. I hopped on from bukit
gmbak and told the driver that i want to go to woodlands. He took
the wrong route and we ended up at changi because he took the wrong
exit at bke. And so, we began to chat.
He told me that he has 2 wifes. 1 in Singapore, the other at
Philippines. He met the Filipino at a pub one night and apparently,
it was love at first sight despite already being married with a
son.
He told me that, the Filipino is a decent woman and was forced
to be in the trade of working in pubs in Singapore due to poverty.
Ever since they started dating, he has began to invest in a
business in Philippines and she has been running it eversince. The
revenue from the business also goes to her account as she knows the
country better than the singaporean driver who doesn’t even know
the Singapore road well!!
Also, she is reluctant to come to Singapore because she insist
that she has a business to look after. The uncle said that he has
decided to divorce his Singapore wife as a result of the fact that
his wife insisted that he only could choose one woman out of the
two.
In my opinion, the philipino may have cheated him of his money.
To him, it was love at first sight and because he loves him, he is
willing to give him everything, even if it means to lose his
Singapore citizenship to live in the rural area of Philippines and
also his family.
The moral of the story here is that, it does not matter if she
will cheat you or not, considering the fact that you are already so
in love with her. Instead, only you can povide yourself with an
answer of whether if she will cheat on you, in a clear mind and
conscience as if you have no affections for her.
Also consider if your relationship will be one that will be long
lasting and if your family will accept her! Or maybe, even your
friends!
