Confused about love

last SG · 2008-04-26T01:46:23+00:00

Perhaps u can only know this answer after one night with him :)

Sheungjoysam SG

I am so confused. It is a very long story, I like this guy and he has been my classmate since primary school. He offered to walk me home today as we both study in Woodlands and we both live at Yishun. I already had a big crush on him since primary four just that when I told him he always rejected me. But it was really different today. I knew I had to muster up the courage to tell him again that I liked him and asked him to give me a chance. Instead of the usual rejecting by acting blur, he said, "I really like you but I have a phobia of something." Then I was already really sad because I am getting rejected again. I asked him what he said he doesn't know too! I really like him and I really wish we could be together, our friends said that we are very compatible to. I really need and like him and that like has already blossomed into a love. How can I pursue his heart?

rlsh07 SG

he's afraid of commitments maybe

QX179R SG

this thread should be posted in here instead..

http://agony.sgforums.com/

but since you're new, you're forgiven..

Cowbaycowboo SG

simi luv?? study 1st

Sheungjoysam SG

I know that I have to study but, its hard to explain.....

Cowbaycowboo SG

tat's why u confused

QX179R SG

you both should sit down & have a chat..

ask him what is his phobia 1st..

rlsh07 SG

hmm.. study first lo, then communicate then resolve

Sheungjoysam SG

We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.

cuddles SG

seems short to me as compared to other longer ones.. how old are you?

rlsh07 SG

We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.

then wait till you graduate lo

QX179R SG

We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.

well, no offence here but most pple will say that they could manage thier time between studies & r/s but seriously, I still think you should put your focus on your studies 1st then talk about r/s at a later stage..

If he's willing to wait then I'm sure after your studies, he'll still be there waiting for you no matter what..

Sheungjoysam SG

I am in sec 1....

rlsh07 SG

I am in sec 1....

so young! pls wait lo.

cuddles SG

I am in sec 1....

sec 1.. you like him now but he won't be with you yet... tell you what, he'll come to you soon.. when he starts to think about having a girlfriend..

rlsh07 SG

hmm.. just study first hor.

QX179R SG

I am in sec 1....

all the more you should concentrate on your studies 1st..

extra one SG

so poor thing… i take u ba!

cuddles SG

sec 1 is like that one.. puppy love.. don't be blinded by your liking for him ah.. next time he come back must see if he is genuine or not.. well how to explain to you.. some guys take a girl who liked him before as always have feelings for him even though it's already over on the girl's part.

and he might become persistant..

QX179R SG

so poor thing… i take u ba!

don't try anything funny..