I am so confused. It is a very long story, I like this guy and
he has been my classmate since primary school. He offered to walk
me home today as we both study in Woodlands and we both live at
Yishun. I already had a big crush on him since primary four just
that when I told him he always rejected me. But it was really
different today. I knew I had to muster up the courage to tell him
again that I liked him and asked him to give me a chance. Instead
of the usual rejecting by acting blur, he said, "I really like you
but I have a phobia of something." Then I was already really sad
because I am getting rejected again. I asked him what he said he
doesn't know too! I really like him and I really wish we could be
together, our friends said that we are very compatible to. I really
need and like him and that like has already blossomed into a love.
How can I pursue his heart?
Sheong,
At sec 1, do you think he is ready for a committed relationship
? I doubt it.
I think it is best you just remain good friend and enjoy the
companionship.
I can tell you desperately wants to "Posses" him. You want to
make him yours so no one else can touch him. A selfish thought, but
love doesn't work this way.
May I remind you that he is not a "thing" and he cannot "belong"
to you. Not at this age, not at his current life phase.
He already says he like you, that's really good enough. Don't
push it.
The more you try to pull him in, the faster he runs away.
