Dreams are great. Everyone has dreams.
Everyone at some point of our lives wished that we can do
something we couldn’t do.
Chasing our dreams is something few of us would do though.
Most of us are happy just dreaming about something.
But you aren’t.
Life is too short for you to sit around wishing something will
happen.
When you want something, you go after it and try to make it
happen.
If we prefer to live in our dreams, they will only hold us
back.
What you must have realized by now is that it is going to take a
drastic change in your lifestyle and personality to live this dream
of yours.
And after all these adjustments, your dream may not come
true.
A lot still depends on what he actually wants.
curiousOrange,
Certain dreams are worth labouring, imagining and wishing for.
From then till now, I never thought this encounter important enough
as a dream to pursue. It's more like fragment of a memory,
heightened when I hear from him.
I think there are two options open to you now.
For once, you need to make up your mind.
It’s one way or the other, no in-betweens.
The biggest weakness in you is your inability to make a
clear cut decision
Your decision is either black or white. No elements of
grey.
Chase your dream.
Go after what you dream about.
If it never could be, then so be it.
Do something rather than let this dream hold you back
Know when you have been defeated.
Fight for the possible, not for the impossible
Never forget that closed door.
It will make a nice memory.
But do not focus all of your attention to it
I derive no joy and no real purpose from this, and vice versa.
I'm not searching for love from him. But there's always the
temptation to steal some time away, burrowed deep in the night
somewhere. I try very hard to steer myself away from this habit, to
do right from wrong. At times I manage, other times I can't.
Thanks for advice.
