I believe, you're ONE of the girls he puts on his waiting list
as " Other Options".
Smart man.
You're more into him, than he's into you.
That night at the Club.. there's TWO very confused women, maybe
when you have the chance.. go have a nice little girl talk with
her. You'd probably find out, he's stringing BOTH of you along.
Yes, contacting you 4 days per week is very romantic.. but are
you his ONLY ONE ?
Or is he contacting several girls 4 days per week ?
If you like the challenge.. I say you go for it. Tease him,
flirt, do whatever you need to win this prick over. Then you decide
if you want to keep him or dump him.
If you think your self-esteem is more valuable... you'd know
what to do. You're a smart girl.
I agree with jojobeach. Perhaps he's still weighing his
options.
Gal, sometimes in life you have to find out the truth yourself.
What is better than to have a face-to-face (and 
-to-)
talk with him? No one else needs to be around, and no one else
needs to know your meeting with him.
I admit though, that if there's this girl I fancy, and I
don't have a gf,
then perhaps I'd spend more time to source for the gift the girl
wanted. Cos that's what I did many years back.
But then, you could just be an option.
Maybe you can foresee the decisions you'll take after you get
your answers:
- If he says A, you will do X (eg. continue to wait for him).
- If he says B, you will do Y (eg. move on in life without
him).
At least you can get a move on, rather than be stuck here in
this moment, like a jammed picture in a movie.
My 2 cents. Hope you don't mind.
