i think if you are interested
in him and since he has confessed to you, it is better that you
have another talk with him where you open up yourself a bit more.
It is only thru open and honest communication that a healthy
relationship thrives. No point playing games. If you are beginning
to like him but unsure about him, tell him so too. At the same time
since this is the early stage, do not invest too much of yourself
until you get more assurance from him that he will be into you
solely.
Meanwhile, keep an open eye to
look out for any inconsistency between what he said and what he
actually did.
During the chatting, he explain that her who tag along
that night because she called him and was telling him she is sad
having some problem. which i didn't probe.
He was grumbling to me which i don't know he suddenly
grumble. He dnt understand gals at all, coz gals like to
show the independant side of them before a relationship but
into relationship they tend to show their true personality. They
are usually very sticky and dependant on bf. (i got
to explain i am not the one who scold him, i suspect it's that gal
who do dat. I saw the gal before she was like quite stern
towards him)
he even told me his feeling that usually if he in a r/l,
even if he know their characters don't click but he will never
forsake the gal. I asked him why.. He told me to him, it's a kind
of responsiblity but he will wait for the gal to leave
when i ask him. what if the gal don't leave ? He replied me
if don't leave, he will stay.
But i replied to him, that will hurt the gal. Even if you were not
breaking up with her, she will have feeling that the man
do not luv her
But he said no, he isn't trying to say he will not luv the
gal.
He will not leave but will still treat her very good. It's just
inside he know she isn't suitable.
And what else.. he said he will even scarifice for her but it just
that he will know his heart.
Abit confusing and
contridacting.
Pardon me, these part doesn't sound too good though. Is he
already attached? He sounds as if he's trying to put out a
disclaimer that he is a good guy but want to have his cake and eat
it too.
Ask him directly whether he is attached or seeing anyone. I know
you might say it is out of your character to ask and you
dun like to probe. But understand that this "good girl" mentality
we girls are brought up in works against us if we are dealing with
a smooth player in relationship.
If he avoid your questions or didnt give u any direct answer...
hmm... i think that says a lot doesn't it. Girl, don't be confuse
any longer. Cos it's supposed to be simple and happy.
