Hi Uncertain
Funny i am like writing to myself. haa...
anyway i use to be quite certain abt him, until lately. I am
confuse by him.
I had dinner with him tonight.
During the chatting, he explain that her who tag along
that night because she called him and was telling him she is sad
having some problem. which i didn't probe.
He was grumbling to me which i don't know he suddenly
grumble. He dnt understand gals at all, coz gals like to
show the independant side of them before a relationship but
into relationship they tend to show their true personality. They
are usually very sticky and dependant on bf. (i got to
explain i am not the one who scold him, i suspect it's that gal who
do dat. I saw the gal before she was like quite stern towards
him)
he even told me his feeling that usually if he in a r/l, even if he
know their characters don't click but he will never forsake the
gal. I asked him why.. He told me to him, it's a kind of
responsiblity but he will wait for the gal to leave when i ask him.
what if the gal don't leave ? He replied me if don't leave,
he will stay.
But i replied to him, that will hurt the gal. Even if you were not
breaking up with her, she will have feeling that the man
do not luv her
But he said no, he isn't trying to say he will not luv the
gal.
He will not leave but will still treat her very good. It's just
inside he know she isn't suitable.
And what else.. he said he will even scarifice for her but it just
that he will know his heart.
Abit confusing and contridacting.
He tease me for only asking him out only when i am bored.
I replied him in teasing, he is too busy very diff to invite.
As he is working on shift work plus he do play ball games with
friends. Don't know he seems to have alot of thing to do
mah..
he also told me that he do not have much outing during
weekend, all i have to do is ask him.
Then he say why not like that, "you ask me, i tell you what i did
last weekend"
But i didn't asked. Becoz it's not me lor..
I am confuse. Maybe you guys can read n understand what is
in his mind ?
About to go off to do my NTU project when i saw this post of urs
haha... ok
I have said earlier, he respects his galfren even if they hurt
him hard. I am not that silly like him but it is because of this
sillyness of his that makes me respect him. It is hard, super
hard to find such a guy in this world... so be his gf first.
Well being gf is not equal to having affairs or what. Just to
inform u, some guys are good at hiding their true intent and the
only way to test that is time. Be his gf for 2-3 years and
understand him inside out to see whether he is what he claims.
A guy who is willing to share his secret or internal feeling to
u means he treats u more than just fren... at least to me, it is.
He probably wants u to be his gf i suppose. So since there is
nothing to lose, why not give him a chance? Finding someone u truly
likes and like u in return is like striking a million dollar toto.
Treasure it ;)
