my ex came back. im lost abt what i shld do

last SG · 2008-02-26T15:20:15+00:00

btw, alfie.. don't stereotype.. men do put a lot in to their relationships just to be cast aside too..and it hurts just as bad too..

the Bear SG

go disappear for a while..

seriously..

turn off your mobile.. everything..

btw.. he's "disappointed" with your response...

that says a lot..

he played you like an angler plays with his fish, then after that tossed you back, he expects you to go on your knees and worship him?

therein, lies someone who is self-centred and thinks only for himself..

forget No.2.. you weren't even that.. you were No.3 or worse..

No.1 is himself.. and i think No.2 and No.3 are also himself..

he played with another, got her pregnant, she aborted, he tossed her aside or she came to her senses and threw him away..

now, he's looking for another go at you..

will you be tossed aside?

i think it's best you disappear for a while..

it's hard.. but like happiness, all it takes is a decision to do it and then each time you think about it, remind yourself of that decision made.. and do it.. keep doing it.. it becomes easier..

no one deserves to have their hearts played with...

jojobeach SG

jojo, he broke up with his girl and the reason i was told is they can’t get along.

Ah yes, I guessed as much. So when he was having unprotected sex with her, they get along well. And when it's time to take responsibility, he can't get along. How convenient.

In other words, he used her, and then dumped her.

So next time, he's gonna do the same to you too ?

If you really cannot live without him, I'd suggest you abstain sex with him. Soon he'll lose interest in you and leave you alone.

Hello Kitty SG

wat's so difficult a decision to make?

tell him to get lost again for good lah.

cApitaland SG

If it is of any importance to you, I believe the number of girls outstrips the number of guys.

Still, I think you should just remain as friends.

FireIce SG

take some time off to think over everything (from beginning till now)

if u have confidence in urself and him for this rship, then u wun be posting here to ask oredi rite?
from the posts, u have been defending him quite a lot... this shows tt u do want to be with him... just need someone to reassure ur decision......

mancha SG

we broke up 1 year back. the reason why we broke up was becos he confessed that he had a gf all along (i was still unaware of the situation den) and i couldn't be accepting being "the other woman". many times, he asked me to stay with him but he had no plans to break up with her. During this 1 year after breaking up, there are a couple of times that he called and mentioned he saw me with guys, and he was jealous over that. He feels as though he had given me away. of cos, during this period after breaking up, he did, on a few occasions, asked me back but i rejected.

Now, he has broken up with the gf, and has been asking me out. Did only went out once and afterwhich we had been talking over the phone frequently. he had been hinting abt getting back, but i ignore that. now the hint has become obvious and he wants me back. I'm afraid that history will repeat itself and one thing that's for sure, i no longer have the trust and confidence in him. i told him that i hope we can remain as friends now, and any other things, we shall talk abt it later.

I'm kinda lost now, apparently he did told me that he's quite disappointed over my response.

Could anyone give some suggestions on my situation?

There can never be a better reason than this (in red) to ditch him.

Let him be dissapointed. You have more valid reasons to be dissapointed in him. He treated you as a backup girl, and has the gall to say he is dissapointed over your response.

Your attitude is correct, do not lose sleep over him, he is not worth it, treat him just as an acquaintance.

jojobeach SG

There can never be a better reason than this (in red) to ditch him.

Let him be dissapointed. You have more valid reasons to be dissapointed in him. He treated you as a backup girl, and has the gall to say he is dissapointed over your response.

Your attitude is correct, do not lose sleep over him, he is not worth it, treat him just as an acquaintance.

Yep. This is spot on Mancha.

steph, why should you be worried about him being "dissapointed" in you ?

If he dares say such thing again, you should tell him off .

" I'm MORE dissapointed in you.. now get outa my face !".

gigabyte14 SG

the answer is obvious right

don't be a sentimental fool

look straight, don't look back

steph09 SG

jojo, i agree with u. In fact, all these things had been floating on my mind and they are all in bits and pieces. i know what i shld do. Smile

jojobeach SG

jojo, i agree with u. In fact, all these things had been floating on my mind and they are all in bits and pieces. i know what i shld do. Smile

Please do the right thing , ok? Good.

steph09 SG

alright, let me sort out my thoughts ya? really appreciate everyone’s help in contributing ideas. I shld learn to be hardhearted! Smile

mancha SG

jojo, i agree with u. In fact, all these things had been floating on my mind and they are all in bits and pieces. i know what i shld do. Smile

Get a piece of paper and jot the things floating in you mind.

You will be amaze that there are not many items actually.

The mind tend to blow up problems out of proportion.

Take care, you are responsible for your own happiness. You have no obligation to that guy.

steph09 SG

thanks mancha! that’s a good suggestion!

Zarks SG

you're not confused.

You're just too stupid to know that this guy just cheating on u..

conclusion: you're just stupid for being a spare tyre.

Stupid ppl like u will only make their life more miserable for not realising the real fact.

Go ahead and be with him again. Later on, he will cheat u again, and u will think how stupid u are.

And again.. he breaks up with the gal, again he called u with stupid sweetening words to get u stupid gal back to him.

Wow i love how he treated stupid gal.

steph09 SG

ZARKS. I’LL REM YOUR TOUCHING COMMENT. BUT WHATEVER IT IS, IT’S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! FARK OFF!

Zarks SG

yea , thks for remembering.

Its always none of my business if u want to continue this stupidity ya.

You can be so hard-hearted on me but cant on him.. wow , im impressed.. i will remember that too.

How i wish to see u use this anger and said these Fuck off to him, and not me. Think bout it.

BrUtUs SG

I'm kinda lost now, apparently he did told me that he's quite disappointed over my response.

Could anyone give some suggestions on my situation?

r u reali TAT desperate? theres so many guys out there lo... ur guy even hv the guts to ask u b small wife... u tink he wun hv many others out there meh? disappointed over ur response? tell him wake up his idea... u should jz simply change ur contacts n leave him behind in ur life... u how old?

Zarks SG

Not desperate. Just stupid.

alfagal SG

alright, let me sort out my thoughts ya? really appreciate everyone’s help in contributing ideas. I shld learn to be hardhearted! Smile

its not e case of being hardhearted...its a clear mind

steph09 SG

thanks alfagal.

as for zarks, i think you’re damn childish. i dont see a point or even welcome u in this thread. oh well, u may perhaps dont even understand what im trying to say cos you’re just an insensitive and sarcastic ass! opps. well, and any comments from u, they are just rubbish.

for the rest, appreciate your advices. sincerely.

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