R/s Money matters

last SG · 2008-01-24T06:15:24+00:00

treat as if you're paying for a prostitute lor, have sex also must pay $$$ what

gnab SG

its really tough always paying for the meals, movies...etc...

talked to her, she also no money, then she say dont come out lor.... like go cheap places... which i think not possible la...

then she like undersatnds when wanna eat dinner say go cheap place... walked the foodcourt dunno what to eat.. in the end go to expensive resnt swensen eat...

PS: i am a 19 and not working part time so money all from parents.. so kinna poor too, but she say she nv work, also need money buy this n that...

can anyone share this experience? Mr. Green

New Creation SG

Go work part time to sustain this. No way out on this. It is not as bad as you think in working part time. It builds up your character, makes you appreciate the difficulty of earning $ even more and grows your maturity as well.

Well do things with your gf that are FOC. Taking a stroll.. in ECp, go reservoir to jog or just simply go Orchard and Do window shopping. Window Shopping doesnt cost you a cent anyway.

de_middle SG

if she doesn't understand ur situation then = no point carrying on Neutral

No9 SG

yup. i am a poor uni student myself, but me and my gf still take turns paying for meals, movies, etc etc.

alot of times it depends on the person's level of maturity. She needs to understand its still not time for a young couple to lead the lifestyle of lets say a working couple bringing in a substantial income.

not point slogging n saving so that u can by her this and that. how long can u sustain bro?

gd luck and take care.

Tier SG

ohh tough. you are still a student so you all should go on dutch.
maybe except occasions.

Xcert SG

absolutely agree.if she just wants someone who spends money on her...then U have to decide if you want to be that carrot-head.

Q.C.Pak SG

Robert... Laughing

take care....

No9 SG

yup.

if she cares for u, she will put herself in ur shoes, and see things from ur perspective.

angel7030 SG

Laughing

Me sharpening my butcher knife now, just prepare and waiting for the right robert tao to come along.

Chop!-Nokia 95
Chop!- haagan daz ice cream
Chop!- free movie
Chop!- free flow of starbuck's frappucino
Chop!- latest Espirit CNY wear
and Chop further!- Lee hwa jewelleries

..but at the moment, nothing to chop leh!!! business damn poor

onlooker123 SG

Wah tough. You have my sympathies. Maybe find another girl to go out with?

rainee SG

I always try to share the expenses with my dear when we go out together...sometimes to the extent I can fight with him to pay Laughing

I know how hard it is for him to earn the money he gets every month, so will get heart pain also if he is the only one spending everytime we go out...

Just talk with your gf about your circumstances, if she is a good and understanding gf, she will know what she gotta do. Another alternative is to start thinking about activities which will cost less money...ie don't keep eating inside shopping malls unless in the food courts, otherwise will definitely cost a bomb...

787180 SG

..Cut your losses as soon as possible...dump her not worth to consider

BrUtUs SG

no $$$ then dun paktor lo... u wan to hv r/s then go work for ur $$$... simple as tat...

BrUtUs SG

Laughing

fused SG

LOL!!! angel so cruel de...

Yuki~! SG

Man, you're like my alter ego
I spend like HELL LOT of money on my boyfriend
I don't even have a job, it's all my allowance

CannyOng SG

No money don’t sian Charbo…

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Yes. I can understand how you feel.

Money is really very important. I personally believe that it's one of the most important factor in maintaining a relationship.

Trust me, most girls at this age are very materialistic. They'll go for Look & money. After a while, they know you're really a pauper, they'll dump you for a richer guy.

Money is some sort a kind of stability factor that girls will look for in their future partner.

vertmonyet SG

if your gf understands you, money should not be so much so of a problem.

i'm 15 myself. i meet her at least 2-3 times a week. money get from parents. so i save. get what? around $6 go out with her?

i don't give a damn about how thin my wallet is. i don't work. we love each other and i thank God she understands why we don't go to fancy places like movies, restaurants etc.

it has since been two months, and we only do window-shopping, slack at vivo, eat at food court. haven't even watch movie.

even topping up my ezlink is a struggle. honest.

Chris1988 SG

well all i can say is that your gf has to understand your plight.

no money already one problem. she makes it worse by asking you to bring her to places like swensens to dine in.

if this problem persists, you gotta let go i'm honest. if she wants to be a taitai, you're not the right person to look for (i'm sorry for being so direct here)

anyway i myself live off from my parents and am rather shameful to say this. i pay for my gf meals and all. my gf isn't really getting alot weekly so basically we try to save up. spend less. eat at foodcourt, market, whatever you name it. we cook at home too.

is your r/s underground btw? as in your parents or her parents or both parents dunno abt the r/s of the both of you?