R/s Money matters

BeautifulBetty SG

No money? Then don't pak tor loh Laughing

Seems to me like your gf don't really want to understand your wallet is empty. If she is really understanding she will eat anything and who say foodcourt nothing to eat. So many stalls and can't even pick one? Anyway foodcourt where got cheap one. Chicken rice is at least $3.50. Should go kopitiam. Cheaperer Laughing Chicken rice can still get at $2.00, and home made barley is $1.00. If she really understand your situation a plate of $2.00 chicken rice will be sufficient for her. She might like you but she resent the fact you are poor. Let's see how long she can take it before she call it quit with you. Can't blame her ditching you if she does cos' no matter how a man must have a bit of money don't need a lot but at least working and able to support yourself and spend a bit more than eating chicken rice at every outing Laughing

RETARDED_MORON SG

Take turns. Whatever she says about her circumstances, repeat after her.

gnab SG

any idea how can i ask her to share money.

Its always like, she act like she understands that money is important. I dont have much at current, she also say she dont have.

But always end up she want eat good food, and i pays for it, or she normally pays like 2dollars or some money, and say later this week no money. Its like i cant bare to see her wallet so empty, my bank now is keep withdrawing and withdrawing...

Working part time now isnt a choice, my study is quite heavy and project work all the time. So working isnt a choice now..

main point, she always say she understand etc... and end up wanna this wanna that... and later say sorry giving those sad and disappointed face. After that dont really wanna talk, mood bad.

But after i withdraw 50bucks, she very fast say want eat icecream, those expensive 1, like 6dollars each... i forgot what name.. anderson icecream..

I mean like how? she always act like understand, but later in the end what happen? When i remind her in a serious tone, she become sad and sometimes cry and say i am fierce. I mean... WTF? i really dont dont dont understand it.

she act like she understood, but then.. her actions?

i really dont know what to do really...

i know money can solve it... but this got to do with personality, i wonder if next time i no money means?

no money = no honey?

gLc SG

why go cheap places not possible?

rainee SG

Talk is cheap. She can say she understands but if her ACTION shows otherwise, she doesn't really mean what she said in the first place. Sorry to say, but I think most probably she is taking you as a carrot head for her to chop chop Laughing

One way to see through this is to take all the money out from your bank account, then next time if she asks you to pay for meals again, tell her you don't have anymore money. Show her that your wallet only has enough to pay for your own meal and show her your empty bank account. Explain to her what has been happening so far, that you have drained out your own account to pay for her extravagance.

If she reallyyy understands, she will offer to pay and share the expenses from now on, but if she chooses to break up with you, you know what kind of girl she is. Sincerely hope she is the former but if she turns out to be the latter, you know you ain't got nothing much to lose anyway Wink

macambagus SG

If u ask me, seems like she's taking you for granted. cannot spoil her like dat. If she carries on like this, you acct will drop like hell. Better keep track of your expenses. She needs to understand u better.

Jamie Zawinski SG

treat as if you're paying for a prostitute lor, have sex also must pay $$$ what

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