joysoylake,
At 61, you should still be rather active in your own social
cirlce.
If you are a health expert then you should jolly well know why you
arn't having sex with your wife for 11 years.
If it is companionship you seek, then you have other men your age
that you can hang out with and seek some senior adventures
together.
If it is merely lust, you know in the end, you will get hurt and
disappointed with young chicks more than half your age.
You can try doing some volunteer work.
That 26 yo lady is nice to you, because you have life experiences
to share.
If she is after your retirement $$, then you better beware.
You may complain you are lonely, have you thought about how lonely
your wife is too ?
Perhaps it is time two lonely hearts come together and make it
whole again.