For the man,
Am I sensitive to the extend that allowing her to go out with other
suitors even she told me that she is going for a movie date with
this guy cause she promise to go?
For the past few months, I'm so tired going after her. I have gave
her all my love but she isn't. Sometimes I feel that she is testing
my endurance limit and try to push me to the limit. I am sensitive
to her needs and being very understanding at all times. I don't
mind BUT if she doesn't love you, it hurts so badly.
Lastly, do you all think that when you are after a girl or a guy,
one should remain consistent in his/her target and not be
distracted by other choices?
When I'm dating a girl, I will choose to think in a way that I will
not go out with other girls except her and if it work out. I doubt
anyone will like the feeling of seeing the person you like to go
out with another suitor.
I really try my best for this relationship.
Both of you are still single, so it's OK to go out with Guy A,
Guy B~Z. It's socializing, and you have your own female friends too
right? I guess you did the right thing by "not
controlling/restricting her".
At your stage, it's best not to use "allowing her to go", because
it'll reflects your insecurity, and women hate such person. (This
is what I've learnt during my many years of observation in
sgForums)
Yes, I know how you feel. keep on loving that special someone but
the love is not reciprocate. After a long time, you seems to be
very exhausted and couldn't go on. This is how I feel too.
I've learn that Loving someone doesn't mean you need to be together
with her, just wishing for her happiness and well-being. If the
person you love is happy, you'll be happy too right? 
Perhaps this is what it meant by Unconditional
Love.
Yup, for me if I am 'wooing'(or secretly admiring, for my case)
this girl, I'll love her with all my heart.
Actually there is no wrong going out with your female friends, just
that maybe you want need to inform your Significant Other who
you're going out with. [In accord
with Communication, Trust and Honesty Rule.]
