I feel so useless

january SG

its a strange story though, abit skeptical. It would take a mad and perverted father for this story to be convincing.

FocusPoint SG

This topic was posted by TS late last night at 11.40pm and so far until now at this hour only garnered twenty-one responds (including mine) from the forumners. Now, I wonder why TS isn't responding to the forumners query yet or is he waiting for more responds to see how hot his topic will get? Frankly if TS is really concern he should be replying pretty soon to the questions posted by some forumners here (since he is on a part time job basis I am sure he HAS time to answer our questions right?) So, in this case I am wondering if this is a genuine situation or a makeup one just to get attention.

In any case let's not jump the gun by asking TS's gf to get a restraining order on her father or do anything that is overly drastic yet.

Now, TS said he is 24 years old already is the gf also the same age or over 21? If yes then why can't she move out on her own and rent a place of her own. At 24 or say even at 21 she should be working already. Renting a room shouldn't be a problem if she is working. Ok, assuming she is working as well as part time and don't earn much can she not share a room with a female friend first? I am sure at their age they would have friends, right?

Ok, let's assume they don't have that many friends but should have relatives right? And even if TS's gf is not close to the 'perverted' father's side relatives how about the mother's? Don't tell me she don't have a single soul to help her out on her plight.

Ok, assuming TS and the gf has exhausted all possibilities, worse come to worse, TS shift into her house to stay with her since TS's mother don't like her but given her situation I'm sure TS's mother will be quite obliging in helping a woman in real distress because she is living in a lion's den where the 'perverted' father might you know....her. No matter how another woman dislike another when come to this kind of situation I'm very very sure they will lend a helping hand.

So, unless TS start replying to our queries I don't think so we all should jump the gun and point fingers at the gf's 'perverted' father. Rolling Eyes

alan- SG

unless ur gf comes from a family other than indian or chinese.. cases of er-hem u know what is very seldom in this 2 community.

smartboy4 SG

mother not on good terms , you tell your mother about this.

move her into your house

spike_jose SG

is the gf dad that perverted? firstly, can even give his own daughter that d*** face? and still watch porn so openly? no offence but wonder who will marry him, if that perverted. surely if there's a son, the son will have become a giggelo or pimp.

u mean ever since u knew yr gf of 6years she did not tell u her dad is like that? have u met your father-in-law to-be?

it means:
1) u have not been spending the usual amt of time with her, thus to spend more time with her

2) she likes u and wants to stay together as well as to start a family.

3)or if really now that she tells u this happening, then the situation must be at its breaking pt, she got into a quarrel with her dad or ... by him!? Shocked

Troy437 SG

Good rationalisation! Wink

Jezmeister SG

cases that actually happen or cases that are reported? there's a lot of sick fucks in this world. it's estimated that one in three girls are sexually abused before 18 (it's actually a worryingly consistant figure around the world in developed countries of 30-38%). it's also noted that in nearly 90% of these cases the abuser is a relative or someone close to the child/family. Cases often go unreported at the time because of the emotional effects of the abuse, so please, don't bullshit on that. stereotypes like that are one of the many things that make people scared to report abuse. the way you guys go on about the chinese how many people do you think would want to fall into a category you associate with them?

BTW, I was unable to get specific figures for sg, but like I said it is a consistent trend across developed nations globally, and your own government figures state that 54% of reported abusers were biological parents.

fused SG

Dun worry, report to the police and den move your gf out of the flat. i agree with the responses before mine, rent a place or ask her to move into her relative's house. i think moving into a relative's house would be better since there would be more people to look after her and she would have a higher sense of security.
wow, didnt know that the stats were so scary... thanks for informing us! ^.^

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