she's come all the way from indonesia to work here and raise
money for her family... it'd be a bad idea to send her back. but
she's the employee, you're the employer. she shouldn't be acting
this way; doesn't she realise the result of her actions could hurt
others and even herself? i know i shouldn't judge her like this,
but entering a room when she's not supposed to, throwing herself on
you, telling you that she's lonely, asking you for sex - these all
seem so wrong for her to do this when you don't even know each
other. you don't know her and what her intentions are. she might
want just for someone to love her, or she might want you because
she badly needs you for help... perhaps money-wise. it seems to me
she's trying to get you to pity her. those feelings towards you...
love or lust?
if i were you, i wouldn't know what to do either. but i'd think
that she's crossing the line. if we had sex and i got her pregnant
(if i were a male) who knows what she might do? accuse me of raping
her? sueing me? sex is just out of the picture.
if you feel that you can't picture yourself and her having a
family, kids and a future together, perhaps you could try talking
to her that this can't work out. if she continues luring you using
sex, tell her firmly to stop it. make it clear to her that she's
here only to work for you. anything else would be crossing the line
and that's when you have to give her the sack. sorry man, that's
what i'd do.
if i were you, i can't trust her so quickly even if she's worked
for me for a long time. (but for me my maid has worked for our
family for 16 years since i was born, she's like a mother to me, in
fact. i trust her more than myself. okay lol different case)
good luck, and don't surrender to her pleadings easily. stay strong
dude!
