Hi, I think that at this point of time you need to concentrate
on expanding your social group of friends or pick up a new
interest. Right now I am hundred percent sure that you are not
happy after what has happened to your relationship. By brooding
over it will not change the fact that yr boyfriend has strayed and
you will live with this fact for the rest of your life.
It takes time to heal the pain rather than be unhappy why not
otherwise. Go shopping, give yourself a treat, do something. your
happiness is in your hands. I can totally understand how you feel
currently cause 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went out with another
guy. Maybe not as serious as yours but the betrayal was done (my
post: girlfriend went out with another guy).
I felt betray, hurt, sad you name it anything negative I felt it.
But after awhile I realised that he/she has no right to make us
feel this way. None at all cause in a relationship if you care
about someone, you dont want to hurt their feelings. So sometimes
telling a white lie is better than telling the truth. Seen the
Korean show "everybody has secrets"? Who in this entire world has
never sin?? But if they have your interest at heart they will
prevent you from knowing the truth.
Seems that you have decided to give this relationship another
chance. So did I but from my experience, I have decided not to
allow myself to be hurt by my girlfriend again. I have been
actively knowing more friends in school and getting penpals through
the net. Not that I want to find a new girlfriend but by talking to
new friends and people, I actually feel better and realised that
there is 4 million people in Singapore. Try talking to one new
friend a day and I am sure that you will feel better after a while.
As for your boyfriend, let him do the work cause if he really
cherish you..... the rest is for you to judge.
Stay happy, you deserve it 
