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Btw, man and woman are very different in first place, be it
physical or emotional. Therefore, it is reasonable for her to ask u
thing while not answering urs in HER context. Therefore, it is
important for u to acknowledge this so that u will feel less
pain.
In the case of possessiveness, u said u are not possessive. I trust
ur word. However, what really matters is u dun APPEAR
possessive.
Imagine u are the girl, how will u feel when someone close to u ask
u:"Are u going out with another guy?" This very question is wrong
in the first place as the girl will think i go out with who is ur
business? I am not even ur gf, u wanna know so much about me for
what? Hence, u appear possessive to her.
TS, do remember to go slow. Be her normal friend first and c how it
goes. What if one day u discover a habit of her that is so
undesirable to u? BGR need not be too official, a simple walk along
a road, a simple conversation can spark the beginning of a
romance... If u still love her, do befriend her as normal, even if
one day u all proceed to become very gd buddies, dun feel sad ya as
u make a gd friend instead of a love foe.