1. Who are make such a statement to her? If you care for her,
make sure you care for the ego too...
2. Talk is cheap and you just talked, spoilt the night and screwed
yourself up. Aren't you supposed to be supportive?
3. Advices here are (hopefully) insights so that you act before
things happens, and not psycho-analysis someone, and then try to
see it happen.
Sigh.....merry x'mas and a ??? new year.