Child molest

last SG · 2007-12-15T19:43:20+00:00

If i am not mistaken, i heard they were watching blue film the nite b4.. her dad one, a curious group of 4- 5 ppl watched together....oldest being sec 3 or 4...

Pitot SG

I don't know if this is a bad joke attempt by you or what.

But, cheap shot mate. That was real low. Don't appreciate this one bit. Rolling Eyes

If you even bother to read you would have known i wasnt even protecting the boy.

CfCJ SG

Both are still consider infant in law. even if so. the police will usually ask the parents of both parties to settle the matter themselves. and they have to consider the fact that if really wanna report the issue, the 12 year old boy gonna have a police record all his life. Reporting means drawing a line between the 2 families and that's for a lifetime. think twice. Like what i've said. ask both parents to sit down and clarify the issue. but if the talk comes to nowhere.. then i guess. u gonna report. Smile

de_middle SG

up to the parents, not ur case Neutral

soleachip SG

Hi crimson soldier,

The argument in this thread can go on for a long time with no real conclusion in the end because were just running circles based on what we feel is the likelihood of truth.

I just hope that in a real life situation, as an adult, even as bystander, you act as you should because even if you err, you err with the safety of younglings in mind (that is basic common sense and basic morality). Juvenile molesters/rapists on the other hand need counseling, probation, psycho sexual screening etc to make sure they are set on the right track.

Confront the situation rather than sweep things under the rug is the right thing to do no matter what happens eventually. Young perpetrators of sexual abuse may be victims of vulgar media but it is not for you and me to estimate the level of harm on anybody (leave it to skilled workers and the authorities).

If sex education for 13yos in developed countries has progressed from discouraging premarital sex to encouraging safe sex, you seem decades away from how modern youth has evolved.

798 SG

yes. i feel u r right afterall. cos this boy is lowright for trying to be nasty by taking off the girl's clothing when she is asleep. who know wat other things might have been happen?

i believe any parents of the victim will not let off the boy so easily.

siansterr SG

wah,still puberty got the balls to do tat liao Shocked

mother-of-pearl SG

Kids sleep together ma... and this happened in the early morning.Both parents were playing mahjong overnight ma..

Access to the porn was accidental...it was kept away, but it was found by the grp.

Being a 12 yrs old, he should know wat he did was wrong, he took off his own pants and touched the gal while she was still in bed... Wu Chi!!

This boy definately need to be punished..

Even when I was 15, i didnt know wat is sex till i was very much older.. den i knew...
Times have changed so much now.. Even u see those primary school kids having bf n gf rs...its not a joke.. i think i hear b4 tat got a 10 yr old gal pregnant n gave birth to a baby.. she matured v early at the age of 9...

See? 10 yrs old girl pregnant, maybe also dunno about it till its all too late.

Sex education starts at home.. I'll make sure my daughter wont get this kind of hurt when she is growing up..

jojobeach SG

BOTH play mahjong overnight ? That is very irresponsible don't you think ? At least one should have abstained so there is someone to watch the kids !

NOTHING with regards to children IS accidental.

I live with my 4 niece and nephews, and ANYTHING we don't want them to touch we LOCK IT AWAY !

Whoever are your niece/nephews parents are IRRESPONSIBLE parents.

Now, how can irresponsible parents teach their children about RESPONSIBILITIES >???

PUNISH the parents and COUNSEL the children !

Geesh.. ~

Rolling Eyes

gigabyte14 SG

Originally posted by fymk:

You seem to think child molestation is a small matter just because it is a 12 year old perpetrator. Have you known molested children ? Have you know victims of sexual abuse when they were children? If not, don't talk.

Beginning psychopaths and sociopaths start early with helpless animals and children - this boy will escalate in his behaviour when his actions are not punished. [b]Why are you so aggressive about the view that I make on taking it to the police .

I don't think it is a small matter . Can't take my opinion? Don't comment on it then.

Oh btw Penal code states clearly and contradicts what you say. A 12 year old is considered to have sufficient understanding of what is right and what is wrong, unless he is mentally challenged i.e. mental retardation etc.

Are you a lawyer? Are you a regular police man ? Do you work with the courts? Because if you are any of those, I would be interested to see what else you can contradict.

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u think so far for what

u really must think this way

will the girl's parents pursue this matter?

not all of them have the mentality like you, who wanna fight it till the end

they might find it troublesome, a waste of money or 'small case'

as for the boy's parents, they're no better, of course they will not pursue the matter

when you grow older, you lack the balls to finish up important and risky things

gigabyte14 SG

as 798 always says, sometimes it takes 2 hands to clap

the girl may be curious at first, and the guy is no better

and they did it, or try it

and then, the girl regretted it, and pushed everything to the guy

although the law blames the guy more, you have to think this way

i am not siding with any gender too

and also, people having bf/gf relationships have nothing to do with the sex ed

schools conduct sex ed very very early nowadays, and they still did it

it is not the problem of the education already, it is caused by their stupidity and curiosity, and partly of the upbringing and the environment they live in

when a boy had proper sex ed in school, yet he discovers his dad's pornography collection(due to the environment), and if he has a gf, what do you think he will do? of course try it, right?

gigabyte14 SG

you really think counsel will SOLVE and PREVENT everything?

SingaporeMacross SG

We need to ask another question: Why would any good father keep a collection of pornography? Sad

metalcar SG

keepin a collection of pornography doesnt mean he is a bad father Rolling Eyes u kill a person means u r a bad guy ?

jojobeach SG

Yah, cane them, jail them up, put them on the noose ! That would solve EVERYTHING wouldn't it ?

Frankly, if that kid is a sex maniac and a born rapist. The only way to stop it from happening again is to give him a death sentence.

metalcar SG

u tink cane them jail dem will work ? sexual desires comes from his mind... no matter how u r goin to punish him, he will not mend his ways.. chances of him doin this again is quite high Smile I rmb readin a post written by sum1 in the buddism forum.. " a bhikkhu was distressed over some sexual desire and wants to cut off penis but then he realised tat
The only was is to "sever" the thoughts by reflecting why ones think of that ... "

thus i feel tat conselling this young boy would be the best.. caning him is ok but not the cane used in the prison Cool

and.. givin him a death sentence .. -.- if really do tat.. then alot of ppl in sg would have already been dead.. wad are the consellors for if u dun1 to give him a chance to change.. ? u guys dun say until u did nth wrong in ur life.. u cannot tolerate tis young boy for his very first mistake then u expect ppl to tolerate ur mistakes ? Rolling Eyes

Hello Kitty SG

y stil fightin.

fymk SG

LOL . I am older and what I am doing is standing up for my opinion.

I am not apathetic . If I feel something is wrong, I will speak up.

And I already communicated with the TS in pm.

jojobeach SG

Sir,
My posting was a sarcastic retort to the post made by some one else.
Thank you.

ihatepink SG

give tat boy a warning first, tell him tat its wrong... if he continues nxt time, report the police lor... give tat boy a chance lahh... Neutral Neutral Neutral

SingaporeMacross SG

No, but if you murder a person you probably are.

The point is, how can any father set a good example for his kids if he indulges in porno?

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