what do you mean this kind of girl?!?!?!
i'm sorry, but i think most clever girls are like that.
do you mean that if we are attached, we cannot go out with other
guys anymore?!?!?! what's this? what if one day the Boyfriend ditch
us? or if we find out that we actually do not match in the long
run?
a girl's beauty and youth expires very fast! as opposed to guys!
there is still a market for guys even when they are old.
so i say TS's girlfriend is very clever to keep her options open.
and all girls should be like that!
please do not blame your girlfriend or assume she goes sleeping
with other guys. that's the worst a guy can ever do! if you are
really that good, your girlfriend won't like anyone else at all!
she wouldn't even be considering. the fact that she is considering
about other guys means that the relationship is stale or you are
not as good as you think after all. true, you may have done many
romantic things for her...but maybe that's not what she wants? and
i agree with quality time instead of quantity.
anyway i love my boyfriend very much. it's not because he's
romantic or what. but because he can always make me laugh when i'm
down and we just have that certain something between us. i don't
know if we will go a long long way, and i carry no hopes too. i
just enjoy being with him. he trusts me. i go out with guy friends,
informs him, and he will say things like, "huh! ok...i trust you.
have fun! 
don't go home too
late though!" whatever. and because i love him a lot, even if the
temptation to stray appears sometimes, i jsut think of what he said
to me, and the temptation immediately disappears. also, i introduce
him to all my guy friends whom i often hang out with so that he can
have a peace of mind and know who he is 'dealing' with.
i'm notorious for being too playful sometimes by my girlfriends
last time. and i know it myself too. but being with my boyfriend
for 6 years and going on, i think i am touched by his strong trust
towards me and his way of just letting me do what i want as long as
i'm happy. his 'as long as you are happy, i'm happy' attitude
towards me makes me treasure him even more. this is what i call a
Number 1 best Boyfriend in the whole universe. don't need to buy me
things. just trust me. just be there for me. and i will give you
all my love that you deserve!
that's the way with women.
