Am i wrong to be angry?

last SG · 2007-11-24T01:30:13+00:00

Why not take a more objective stance? It's just another one of those countless relationships founded on insecurity that is unlikely to withstand the test of...

VagueHart SG

How long have you all been together? Is the R/S stable before this happened? Learn to trust her more, dun everything don't trust her, r/s will die easily this way..

Take it as a test, if she leaves you now cos she wants to get back to those guy then let it go, if she loves you she won't do it de.. of course I'm not asking you to let her go too wild... Wink

skeujin SG

your words contradict each other. you ask him to leave her to her frens yet u ask him to join her n her frens.

eventually even if he does know them. note that they are her frens, not his. he shd let her have her time alone with her frens w/o him being around.

his being there at the chalet will only show -
1) he is possessive
2) he doesnt trust her
3) he has no life of his own
4) too clingy
5) he is so selfish that he does not empathies with his gf's needs

BrUtUs SG

jz suck it up... theres no equal in a r/s... teen r/s even more is abt frens n fun so dun take it too hard... jz enjoy the fun times...

Lorry` SG

i ask him to join in because he said he knows her friends too.. (and know well like what he had said) so since he's so insecure, i guess he may join in too

of course, he should give some free time to his gf and let her mix with her friends.... actually i'd rather he dont go tomorrow Smile

shredyellow SG

same prob bro my ex wholeday neglect me cause of her friends and she really nvr make time for me at all.my prob is the neglecting part. not the boy part. and she always change time like forever.and i mean every single time. anw we broke up alrand from my experience, this means that

1.her friends come first
2.she lost feelings for you

and this means that if you cant take this, means you are quite sensitive and have a lil trust issue right here. just like me in the past.means that the both of you arent really meant for each other lah. no point continuing. because its like you are sensitive and your girl just nice is that type of girl that doesnt show love or care for the bf.

IF you still wanna continue the rship,dont show her that you are sensitive to trivial matters like this,show her that you trust her.if not, im afraid i have this feeling you are gonna get dumped soon.

gdluck Very Happy

Gallardofever SG

I really despise people like you. You need to get a grip, grow up and stop whinning. If your girl decides to leave you, its not that shocking.

purpledragon84 SG

don't like that la.. once in a while people feel lost and confused and need some advice de mah.. that's why come AA what.. people needs experience and guidance to grow and learn mah.. if not don't need schools liao right? lets give the guy our best wishes la k? Wink

Clandestine SG

The only reason a person would despise a personality trait in someone is because in some dark recess of their own psyche, they recognise that trait in themselves and that brings about fear. Fear of allowing that trait to become "active" in themselves. So they use hate as a "stopper".

Don't despise/hate.

Chris1988 SG

hmmm.. just from my POV kae.

being angry is inevitable.

try putting yourself in your gf shoes. imagine u going to chalet after your As and blah blah blah you used to like this girl blah blah almost got together. you think your gf won't be the slightest bit of angry or perhaps jealous?

you said she values her friends more than you. is it really true? imagine you're out with your guy friends. you think you can accomodate both your guy friends and your gf at the same time? we can't split ourselves into 2 and entertain both parties. naturally being her, she would want to join her friends rather than you. afterall, its her class chalet am i right?

she asked u along, maybe to show that she wants to be with u. but deep down do you think she really wants you to tag along? you'll be more like an obstacle for her during the chalet because she has to entertain you.

sorry if i sound harsh here or anything but i just wanna advice you not to go. if you want, probaly find her during the night that is if she has nothing on with her friends. maybe if they want go red house than she don't want go, yes.. this is the time where you should go accompany her at the beach and all. not in broad daylight go what wild wild wet or escape or what. sometimes its about caring for how she feels. this relationship cannot go in your way always. it has to go in her way too Wink

kengkia SG

shifu!!!!! Shocked Shocked

Gallardofever SG

That's quite an impressive load of crap you pulled off trying to sound smart.....

I-like-flings(m) SG

game over already lah.... my new fling now also like that.. got all the time for "frens" just no time for mi.... Crying or Very sad

browniebaobao SG

since it's a chalet organised by her frens.. juz let her enjoy for that few days?

even if u dun feel safe to leave them alone, also dun need to stick to her ba.

infantry SG

you will be going to the army soon and you behave like a wanker, grow some backbone buddy.

Clandestine SG

It isn't that hard to 'sound smart' next to the drivel you type.

de_middle SG

TS, food for thought yah.

Gallardofever SG

Not quite there yet for a shrink wannabe. Try harder next time.

dxdx SG

i say give her her space. its like when you've got your own chalet and you dont want your gf to be calling you and interrupting you the whole time.

if something unfortunate happens, then make it clear that you wont stand for that crap and be prepared to leave.

lonerjays SG

First of All, what don't you try to improve your sentence typing and gammar skills? It will mislead the forumers.

LonerJays

P.S: nowsday female had their own thought and stuffs, so they wanna freedom even through if they are attached.

E.P.S: BrUtUs, hope you don't be mistaken, I was refering to topic starter. Good days mate.

lonerjays SG

Break up is common, why? Because there were no love in the first place.

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