The hidden cruel truth

last SG · 2007-10-31T12:10:43+00:00

i'm quite surprised by her reactions after everything. It's back to normal..too normal which disturb me a bit.Won't give up for now,so into her.haiz

S.KCH SG

Well.. You must be hurting bad Sad ( But to be honest you don't seem to have much of a chance wor. Haiz

But what you *can* do is to tell her... Then see if she can still be a worthy friend by judging her response, whether she still cares that you are hurting, etc.

However the most impt thing is that you realise, and accept the fact that you will be the one hurting and you must bear that pain and move on to better things!

Sakuraflower SG

Since u like her, tell her..
Does she like u too?
Ask whether you have any chance?
Give her a period of time to think through.
Does she has feeling for u ?

Then the worst, she rejected u,
u can consider whether u still want to be her friend
Or u just continue be friend with her..

u confess to her.
what is the reactions?
did she say anything else?

dun think so much!

BrUtUs SG

see ur luck now… go temple pray… wait for gd chance then give her flower n confess…

lakopi SG

if u can take rejection, then give it a shot and confess....

if u can't, please go elsewhere to look...women are everywhere

LOL @ SGF KIA SG

You need to be a begger because you know you can't be a miilionaire? What warped reasoning twat. LOLOLOL @ YOU

Uncertain SG

Feel sad for u...

So the lesson u learnt is that girl being closed to u doesn't really mean she likes u. Treat this as part of the learning process and move on... i learned a lot of times liao haha Laughing

F.raon.I.R SG

feel so much like a fool now…drained of mental strength.

absol SG

chiong la haha.
after she gets the guy ure probably gonna ignore her more.
after u kenna rejected ure also probably gonna ignore her more.

ppl say, die with no regrets. similarly mus also lose a friend with no regrets mah, since u talk about it like a lose-lose situation. plus you dont have anything to lose anyways. dont try wont know and u've done ur best anways. Mr. Green

Smalltree SG

If it were me, I would just tell her. Get the whole thing over with. Most of your pain and frustrations probably comes from the fact that you dun know if you will be accepted. If you dun say anything, you will probably always question yourself and wonder whether things would have been different if you had let her know.

So just tell her. Even if the answer is negative, you you just feel pain for awhile and after some time you will get over it.

The worst things is not a negative answer but no answer. Just tell her. Its a win win situation. If the answer is no you can still move on. If the answer is yes good for you. If you dun do anything.......its a lose lose situation. You wonder forever and she will also never know if you like her.

Guys must take more initaitive !! Wah surely you dun expect her to declare her love for you first -__________-

Zarks SG

hm.. i wonder if shes really this close with other guy ? the way she treat u is really like too concern u ..

i got many good female frens but none of them treat me like too much concern bout me..

TOo bad man, i guess either she really treats u as a very good buddy or the guy is really u ...

TS, if u feel so badly wanna tell her, just do it.. I think she deserves to know how u feel.. at least she might not giving ur the wrong hints again and left u hurt more deeply.

I support u with all my heart. Just do it.

F.raon.I.R SG

thanks dudes
juz chat with her again on msn..as usual"concern" with me
she guessed that i faced BGR problem wanted to force the thing out from me...and the thing that make me more pain is that she don't know that she's the one when i've did so many things for her..i haven told her.I told her that i will tell when the time is right.
i'm now thinking whether to type a whole chunk of how i feel and send to her..
she will get the biggest shock of her life if she though that thru this 1yr+ i only treat her as a buddy.
But i m also torn apart about if i type too detail,she will be scared off.And,i will lose not a gal but a very close fren.

Smalltree SG

Maybe she is trying to "force" you to take a step to tell her so that she can give you her answer.

Giving a negative answer will not spoil the friendship. But dragging this on for too long will.

Zarks SG

TS, u dun have to think much la.. and u dont have to type out all this and that bout what u did for her

Just tell her, all these long, u liked her and u just want her to know it..your agony is solved.... There might be a chance that u guys not as close as before but hey, u did what u wanted . isnt that enough ? at least, if its not as close as before, wouldnt u feel better instead of she care so much bout u ?

TS. sometimes the outcome is not as bad as u think it will be.. u just need to get over the barrier and u feel better 10x than u feel right now.

The longer u wait to tell her, the longer u will suffer this agony my friend.. DOnt waste your time on these and make u moody all day long

Zarks SG

Think bout these:

Your Goal : Tell her u love her

Risk: Not a fren anymore / the guy is you

U got your goal, sometimes u need to achieve ur goal without thinking of the risk

Hope this help!

Dont wait any longer man.. get her out one day, talk to her face to face... or sms if u feel it better way

F.raon.I.R SG

well,wanna tell her face to face..but not until probably 2 weeks later…she wanted me to bring her dinner.After i enjoyed then i break the news to her..i’ll enjoy those last few moments before everything changes..

AndrewPKYap SG

Just continue as usual until you fall for some other girl and start a relationship with the new girl or this present girl starts a relationship with a guy.

Just tell her that if she wants, she can start a relationship with you while you are still available.

AndrewPKYap SG

There is no hidden cruel truth… that is just a figment of your imagination…..

Zarks SG

Good good

F.raon.I.R SG

horrible..asked me who moved my heart,still want me to show her the pic..if i show her the pic i took with her she confirm say i'm joking or wat..
she still thinks i'm moody,i told her i miss her she said in a jokingly manner that i'm lying to her..
Sad Sad Sad

lpx88 SG

Jus spit it out. If procrastinate until 2,3,4 years, she'll get an even bigger shock then Laughing

Anyway just email her yr confession and...treat it as a closure. Rmb to indicate that u'll wish her all the best and still wanna remain as friends if she turned u down.

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