i think i am too narrow minded

last SG · 2007-10-31T21:05:14+00:00

to be prepared for the worst is a good time, just dun overdo it and definitely dun need to keep it in ur mind all the time.

Uncertain SG

No wonder ur avatar is a smiley face.

RedizAlertz SG

Try to focus on happier things instead & surround urself with optimistic pple.

Maybe can avoid readin newspaper, or bad news reports temporary. Too many negative things are happening ard us, we need to keep ourselves motivated. External factors DO actually affect the inner thoughts. Negative things nvr have good results.

All the best!

Isis SG

Since you are awared that u r too narrow minded then be more open-minded loh. Laughing

Then your mind will be much more receptive to doors of possibilities.

You can also try to analysis the matters objectively than getting too personal with it.

Ok, what do u mean by bad thought? If you have done nothing bad, your consciousness will not be there disturbed. If you did something bad, your consciousness will not be calm as it will be disturbed by negative emotion.

absol SG

i agree that u seem pessimistic lol.
but to me being pessimistic is a pretty good thing.
it pushes me to do stuff. eg, usually i'll try harder for subjects im pessimistic in and get more motivated to study it. i usually go bo chap if i find myself optimistic towards a subject, only to end up finding so many things that i dont really understand abt it...long story cut short, being pessimistic allows continual improvement to take place.

my theory is be optimistic towards life and pessimistic towards the goals in life Very Happy

BenBenDeZhu SG

ya i agree, its all in yur mind

CannyOng SG

Is yr r/s too bored? Divert yr energy how to make yr r/s better ,rather than engaging on negative things...

sEphIrOth SG

thank you. i appreciate these comments very much. she juz celebrated a smashing birthday with me Very Happy

bye bye pessimistic thoughts

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