Originally posted by jojobeach:
candyx3o,
Please confirm it is only jealousy, not [b]suspicions you have of
your bf.
It is normal for you to feel jealous. But depends to what
extend.
It is actually healthy for you to be little jealous, because that
means he means something to you.
Trust is another issue, not to be mingled with this kind of
jealousy you have for him.
First, you need to figure out why you are jealous.
Is he spending more time with those female classmates
during free time at your expense ?
Then you can figure out how you can manage your emotions with some
rationale.
You must understand that this world is half female and half
male.
You cannot expect him to stop socialising with half of the
population because he chose to be with you , right ?
[/b]
I don't suspect him or anything, I already repeated so many
times that it's some feeling that I cannot control. I don't want to
feel this way either.
I don't know, at my expense meaning cancelling dates & hanging
out w female classmates? If so, he doesn't do that.
As I have already said, it's not that I expect him to stop talking
to girls, my point is whether it's normal to have this kind of
feelings & how to go about coping w it.
