Originally posted by L.o.s.t:
To smudgey, I can understand how u felt. Coz tats what my gf told
her frens and me. [b]She felt that I have been giving in to
much to her especially ever since I left school, to the
extent of finding her everyday even though she knew that I were
tired after work. But I did that coz she used to say that she
wanted to see me everyday. Initially when we got together, those
days where I went for my soccer or meet up with my frens, we will
never fail to quarrel as she will kicked out a big fuss. But when I
asked her to join us (for dinners), she will say that she is shy
and she don wanna go. And the main reason why I gave in a lot to
her when I graduated was becoz I don wanna her to feel tat Im a
different person once I started working. We had limited time
together, I really wanna her to feel that Im still the same person
who cares about her.
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Lost,
the words in bold is your answer.
She has already given u your answer "She thinks its not possible
for our love to come back"
Look at it this way. Right now she says what she can't take is the
fact u keep giving in to her. - you can tell her that you will Stop
giving into her..... but isn't that changing yourself once again to
suit her?
I do believe, that there's always a point in the relationship that
once passed, nothing can rekindle the love again.
I know it's hard, but pls move on.
