To TS enough is enough.
Kena play out by your ex is bad enough.
Kena play out by her again and again is pure dumb.
She must be be the good looking and beautifull type.
Put it this way she can play with other rich and handsome looking
guys why chose you?
Life is never fair and you do not have what it takes to handle this
type of girls yet. I admit when I was young, I was cheated and dump
by this type of girls who say they love you to the moon and stars
but their actions only shows that they are willing to sleep around
when your back is turn.
Examples of why you should not treat girls well
jojobeach said
"
Lets face it.
You ain't Mr Perfect.
There are many guys who in outsider's eyes is the nice boy next
door who got dumped by their evil girlfriends.
The truth is, behind closed doors, the Mr Nice guy , disregarded
his gf's feelings and do things to make her feel slighted. While
putting on a good guys image in the public.
These Mr Nice Guys just wants to make their ex the witches of
eastwicks.
So people will go naturally side with him, pat his backs and give
him their sympathy.
So far, you never once describe your own flaws. That in itself
tells me loud and clear that you are a fake nice guy.
"
You have done so much for the gal you love and treat her so well.
But look at how others wack you so hard for the things you had
done. I know how much you have done cos I was in your shoes
before.
lets look at another example.
by smudgey
"
It happened to me once, my ex was pretty much Mr Niceguy, dont get
me wrong, he has his temper too and we do quarrel, but he will do
whatever in his power to give in to me
. He was willing to change
for me. But the thing is, the more he is willing to change, the
more he gave in, the more I felt like a !&$&!, I felt
demanding, and selfish, and in turn I hated myself.
So I ended it, I decided that I Need someone who will stand up to
my demands, and not give in all the time, I need someone wholl
love himself more so that he will not be ever-willing to change
everything abt himself for my sake.
"
The above story only shows why borther to be a nice guy.
Since treating them well and giving in only makes you a better
target to be kena dump faster then why be good?
Being nice to the girl you love also kena scold by people who does
not understand the effort and time you put it for the girl you
love.
These type of gals only make guys wonder why be a good guy when all
they want is a real mean guy who plays with their feelings and dump
them?
We live in a very sad world where being good s u c k s.
This is only your first relationship. Learn from it and grow up
from it.
Cut all contact from her and tell others you dump her and is the
end.
The first step of being a proper man is to handle your relationship
well.
If you cannot even handle a useless relationship, how are you going
out in the working world to work?
Think about what I have say and act upon it.
If you feel my words are useless then just go on with this never
ending cycle of kena play out by the so call first gf only loves
you but sleeps around with other guys.
Action speaks louder than words.
