PeriodMan SG I have a girlfriend i do not want to go clubbing. She wants to go clubbing even though I have been emphasizing the dangers to her. She told me she would not go anymore for my sake. What if one day she gets influenced by her peers? Should I let her go? And what should I do since I am a little paranoid? Just let her go clubbing even though I do not like it? Thank you.
Uncertain SG Once in a while is ok. Everyone needs some space... If u are worried, then just follow her lor....
PeriodMan SG but im scared for her. i cannot go for personal reasons but i do not like her going there in the 1st place. she may think it is for fun but i prefer she not risk it how?what can i do?
mhcampboy SG clubbing = BIG chance of cheating... Really...! Sure she might not find a boyfriend(though there is possibility), but she can flirt, or be clamoured around by guys.... And you will never know what songs+alcohol can do to a person.... Sure she might not go for ONS, but can you bear the thought that she is somewhere in there, hugging and maybe kissing guys?? At the end of the day, people don't go clubbing to go for art class.... They want to be seen and see people.....
mhcampboy SG Thats what they all say... You know why they say that...? Because they haven't found or got the chance to meet anyone when with their friends... The tune will be different if one day, while just "hanging out" .... and found someone in there....
cApitaland SG i help you look out for your girlfren. where she wna go club? my hse oso can. nah. jkjk. jus go with her la. or let her go if you want... but be ready for ons or rape. try to find alternative entertainment with her la...
PeriodMan SG this is my perception. she convinces me that she goes to dance and is with her friends. i know in the past she ever dance with guys and know guys, but nowadays she tells me when she rejects guys. i have no reason to not trust her. however, the question is, will she be safe? she is with frens...i hope she is fine..unless her friends do stuff to her..then....i dont know what to do.
Pitot SG You know her well enough right? you should know how she behaves. If she is the sort who does certain stuff to have fun and unwind, but u cannot tahan, come to a compromise. If not, no point in the relationship.
PeriodMan SG but i cannot go due to personal reasons. she goes with her frens. i trust her girlfrens and herself, but i dont know whether there will be cases of people trying to take advantage of her.
smudgey SG haiyo let her go la she has taken care of herself for how many years le... if u really concern for her safety.... go pick her up after la
mhcampboy SG Sure have.... but when that happens, it's all up to your gf... She may look filial in front of you.. but hey, everyone have their darkest secret...
Pitot SG she can give up clubbing for you. (at least at face value) Why cant you let her go clubbing?
