this may or may not work...
but IMO, when i have taken the trouble to write down my feelings
into a letter, and hand it to him, the ball is now in his
court...
whether he wanna continue to assume he know's what's bothering me,
or he choose to read the letter and find out what is TRUELY
bothering me, that is his decision to make...
TS, if u do write a letter to him, write it calmly and in clear
manner... take the trouble to further explain. cos in a letter it
is also easy to misinterprete