My heart is wounded

Shark8 SG

I just patched up with my girlfriend for a few days. Yesterday we went out and reached home around midnite. We planned yesterday to go orchard today.

11.35am - Later shall we go orchard?

I replied - Ok

11.57am - U sure you wan to go? If you tired den nvm.

I replied - Ok then. I rest.

6.49pm - Do you wan to buy mooncake with me tmr? If not, i can ask my frens accompany me.

I replied - Why must ask your friends accompany you? I can go with you mah.

7.24pm - Today u dun wan wat

I replied - You asked me to rest today and you didn't state we meet after I rest.

7.27pm - ...Need to rest 1 whole day meh. Always play me out. You can rest all your life. rest whole afternoon not enough meh? U said want to spend time with me but no action. Thats wat u are best at. all talk but no action.

i replied - But u asked me to rest today..

7.30pm - You cannot automatic? If you really wanted to spend time with me, you will wan to meet in evening.

Sigh...Who is in the wrong?

MooKu SG

It's a silly quarrel.

Why do you want to find out who's in the wrong? ._.

PointBlue SG

since you're the male, you're obliged to apologize for unexplainable things like that. Twisted Evil

DjMatrix SG

You're also obliged to receive a roundhouse kick to your face Very Happy

PointBlue SG

har! you may wish to be reminded that i am a trained exponent of ninjitsu. Twisted Evil

csp3976 SG

Aiyah... most lady are veli "kou shi xin fei".
They may said want you to rest but heart was hoping that you will say you wanted spend time with her even thought you are really tired.
So, learn to understand what thier words really mean loh.
That's why many said women are hard to undersatnd loh.

sEphIrOth SG

chuck norris pwns all Twisted Evil

yiha093 SG

Laughing
muz act act de ma
she say
wan come ma, tired nvm ,
u say, wan.. of cuz wan pei u la... but... dear... tired lei
then she say go rest, then u surprise her la( go find her) XD Cool

or maybe not, up to u la Surprised

Sienx SG

tats y u will nvr noe what a woman actually wanted...

i still remember...my mom sae she don wan to eat..den my dad buy bck for us.....den buy my mom share...den he was eating...den later my mom tell me tat '' u see , he dont even bother to ask'' and my dad is the u sae don wan means don wan le LOLX

maybe my mom old liao..but i think is quite simillar to yr post ba.. Wink Rolling Eyes

Nadare SG

think its just a tiny issue..

DjMatrix SG

stun+toss is no small issue Laughing

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Communication Problem. Both of you are wrong. Since you're a guy, you're more wrong!

hisoka SG

aiyah veyr normal one lah. females like to lie like that typically. guess you just have to get used to it.

Othello_Red SG

I think by now you should be fairly familiar with all these contradictory things she says. You can never take anything at face value.

Guys will always be at fault, no matter what. So, be like the rest of us and just apologize.

de_middle SG

Dear TS, many a times such girls will expect guys to perform certain actions that require no hinting.
As a guy, u shld have initiated meeting up in the evening w/o her asking. dun u have any desire to meet up at all Question
She has put you above all others by asking u 1st.....so u know what went wrong, don't u

Zarks SG

Its you, stupid head.. u dun have your own decision ar????

Is it u really wan to rest or wan to go with her ?
I dun think you're that tired till u cannot move rite? just go with her la.. you wan be with her , then go , even if she said dun wan u to go..

Let me tell u la.. if you not strong with your own decision, bye-bye to your r/s. Gal dont like a weak guy like you

dumbdumb! SG

i think its a big mistake when girls expect guys to be automatic etc. Neutral

M©+square SG

The one who uses logic will end up with more losses.

Othello_Red SG

I second that.

angel7030 SG

Disagree! guys should be either in auto or semi auto mode, they must be gentlemen enough to lead us ladies on, it is very bad for ladies to make the initial move to ask this and that, guy should automatically have the sixth sense to initiate and plan outing or dating in our flavor.