My heart is wounded

mancha SG

Eating out with wife.

Me: Got some more food, you have it

Wife: I dun want.

So I finish the food.

Wife: Why you eat all! You neber keep for me.

Me: I ask you what!

Wife: You only think of yourself... just like __________. You all the same very selfish Dun know how to think of other people Just now I dun wan, not I dun wan at all. Always eat all, always like dat one.

Next table ppl already looking at our direction

Me: Mad

What to do.
In public, so just keep quiet.

dumbdumb! SG

that's why relationships get into trouble. guys can be gentlemanly, but being gentlemanly is different from mind reading.

when a girl breaks up with a guy because he can't second guess her, it means she's not in love with him, but she's in love with the ideal guy in her mind. in her mind, she constructed an ideal boyfriend, he must be good looking, how he should react in situations blah blah blah.. etc.

and because the boyfriend do not meet that, she breaks up with him. its as good as never being in love with the real guy at all. its superficial

dumbdumb! SG

proves my point. girls are stupid. Rolling Eyes

M©+square SG

Woah!

Another battle coming. Twisted Evil

wului99 SG

sounds experienced Embarassed

wabuaysong SG

to me, i felt that the girl is more in the wrong. Even though im a girl but still i felt that she is juz being UNREASONABLe... she ask bf go rest, bf go rest dan she kpkb...

but on the other side, some girls like to act " considerate". So by asking u "dear u tired ma, if u tired dan u rest lor" there is 2 ways to explain it..
1. she wan u to feel that she is a awesome girlfriend who spare a tot for u OR
2. something similar happen before and u claims u are tired. So tis time round, she PURPOSELY ask u tired ma??

either wae, deep down her heart, she wan u to company her de. If u sae u are tired but yet insist on going wif her, she will be laffing hard in her heart..

If the above is not true, dan the ONLY reason is she is finding fault wif u...

Afterall there is no rite or wrong in life lah.. its all seperated by a thin line. If u think u are rite dan juz heck her nonsense lor but if u think u realli love her and u cant live w/o her, dan juz be henpeck and gib in bah.. no choice de its all about gib n take...

Morale of all relationship.. there is always 'UP' and NO down. all girls need honey to keep them nourish n going....

good luck bro!

hisoka SG

he wants to rest and made the decision to rest and not meet her.

and then you say he should change his mind.

and lastly you say he should be strong with his decision and not be weak.

hmmz a bundle of contradictions in just 1 short post.

Shark8 SG

I think you are the stupid head who can't even give advice to people.

I made my decision to rest at home. This shows that I'm strong with my decision.

Zarks SG

Angelic is right. Guy should do that instead of gal making the initial move.. its a shame to let a gal plans everything..but sometimes must let gal plan if they wan to go shopping .. its give-and-take ba,..

But TS, seriously, u dun have heart to go out with her.. what she said is true.. u just talking but no action.. shes disappointed with you when she expect you would say even though you tired, u wanted to accompany her.

PLease buy the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"

I personally read it and it shocked me how true it is from a gal
s opinion

Zarks SG

hmm.. TS, u shoudl have just be strict with your own decision, why whne she asked u to go orchard , u said ok, then she said if your tired, u said ok , u wan to rest? i dont see what u really want actually

ur gf just wan to have you accompany her..

sigh i dont know la..

my only advise is to understand what she really needs

Zarks SG

instead, you should say you wanted to rest.. by the way you replied, it seems to me like you listening to ur gf's advise blindly and seems a bit blaming your gf

the 2nd one : the "but u asked me to rest today" .. seems like ...you have no decision of your own.. im sorry , dude but the way u replied , to me, seems that way. Is it that she asked you to rest then you rest? or is it yourself wanted to rest?

For green senteces:
Your gal meant you have to have own planning or decision or watever if you wanted to spend time with her like u always said.. but seems shes the one who putting the effort of spending time with you..

Can i ask you if is it only your gal plan all the outings??

Seriously man, shes getting tired of your bullshyt mayb. Im serious, what she sees in you is a man who talk but no action.. its time for you to do some effort.

YOu should have been lucky cuz u got a gal who wanted to spend time with you and telling what she feels instead of keeping quiet

Zarks SG

hmm.. but i cant say its all TS fault..

This gal seems to seek more attention from TS. A bit immature thinking..I can understand that cuz my ex is a bit childish and hunger for my company too. Once i left apartment without telling her cuz she was sleeping but i put a note beside her bed.. she got pissed off with me haha.. but i know at least waht she wants... she just dun like for me to put things like that.. she prefer me to tell her even though shes still sleeping.. yea bit unreasonable.. but she will feel shes not important if i only make a note. hahaa

but all a gal wants is a company. Mayb she's not happy bout something or watever,

Hmmm..

For TS:

a) Be more strict of your decision and dont say something like "But you asked me to take rest". Why dont you say you're tired today cuz of yesterday's midnite outing and will meet her again the nex day or so?

b) U have to prove and give more effort to plan outings with her and must not break your promise.

For the gal:

a) should have understand the situation and dont have to start argue bout this simple thing..She needs TS company but just dont know hwo to tell it directly to TS. Some gals just afraid or dont know how to tell what they are thinking..

Just some understanding would be enough and do not flame or bring past incident to make the flame hotter..

Dont know you both la.. but i can see at least she wants your company and wanted to be wit you. AT least she did some effort.. Im not that lucky Wink Wink

Shark8 SG

Sometimes, I don't understand my girlfriend. When she asked me whether I want to go out, I answered I want to go out. Then she ask me whether I'm sure I want to go out and said if you are tired then nvm. I already said I wanted to go out and she still ask me whether I'm sure. I know I may be indecisive sometimes but I don't like her to keep asking.

She said I can rest if I want to when I haven't even tell her I'm tired. So i replied I wanted to rest. Is it wrong to listen to her? Since she said nvm, then I rest. I'm a simple and straightforward minded person. I think that is my weakness. Now this is a hard lesson for me and I can't take a girl's word at face value. She say something and yet mean another thing. Another point, when I give her present, she say its too expensive and I wasted money. When I don't give her present, she complained why I never give her present. I believe that the gift that I wanted to give her is from the heart, so the cost of it doesn't matter. I guessed her thinking is too complicated.

She haven't give me an answer whether to patch back again. I kept asking her for forgiveness and she ignored me. All I wish now that she will come back to me. I have prepared myself for a break up. Sometimes I felt she is trying to make my life difficult.

oOprinceOo SG

girls r like dat de. bud since u like dem . then... Laughing

MooKu SG

wakarimasen...!

why do you say so?

Othello_Red SG

logic = reading things at face value

for example, if you are tired, and your gf tells you to rest instead of going to catch that movie with her, logically you would think that:

a) i'm tired therefore i should rest
b)i have her express approval, all the more i should rest

bad call dude.

wakarimashtaka?

yiha093 SG

no la.... Embarassed Laughing

yiha093 SG

in love 1+1not equal 2 Laughing

even my x -gf say u wrong sia

<Precious> SG

Nobody's in the wrong..... she's mind-farking you...... Seems like a woman thing leh. Girls are very fond ofg doing these kinda things.... Laughing

Why har...? Shocked

Perhaps some char-bor could kindly enlighten? Mr. Green

yiha093 SG

CB Laughing

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