My heart is wounded

Shark8 SG

Sometimes after work commitment, I still need to break the codes of her mind is it? I'm already tired as it is. I might as well find someone else.

browniebaobao SG

learn to understand the female language. Laughing

boka SG

let me tell u this golden secret.

GIRLS say this but does another.
They duno what they want~!

MooKu SG

don't you think guys are equally hard to fathom? Neutral

MooKu SG

that's being amoeba-brained! Confused

Razz

thanks for the explanation.

boka SG

female dun have any language.

They only signal they emit are confusion.

Gals have a big secret which they think most guys don't know but obviously i know.

What gals want and what they are attracted to are totally different!
Gals often claim they want caring,concern and family oriented guys but they are attracted to jerks.

Gals cant make up their mind.

It's like us sayin we want to study hard,ace the class but we end up playing and forsaking our studies.

It was very easy for u gals to say we guys dun understand u but now that the secret is out,it's purely about how u gals dun even understand ourselves.

BenBenDeZhu SG

that is veri subjective hor

boka SG

u dun have to break it.
THere's no code.
They themselve are fickle minded and confused with their thoughts and actions.

Gals can be easily manipulated.
yes they are easily attracted to jerks not because they love bad boys but because gals are ATTRACTED to traits they have which is
-ASSERTIVE
-NOT A PUSH OVER

The only way to have an edge over the jerks is to be a nice guy[I dun mean pushover]and at the same time assertive.
If they whine to get u to do something,dun give in.
Just tell them ur not entertaining whinners.

This way u are a nice guy but at the same time ur showing that ur in control.
Gal wun admit but they love it when guys dominate the play.

BenBenDeZhu SG

pedohao!!! Laughing

browniebaobao SG

hello, TS also got fault leh.

it's not juz the girl's fault.

why are girls attracted to jerks?

bcos jerks have a way with girls.

but jerks are jerks afterall.

yiha093 SG

BBB
ur answer Laughing
btw my stand is tat TS wrong 2
Wink

yay, i learn how to double quote Mr. Green

boka SG

so how is he wrong?
No gal language pls.

BenBenDeZhu SG

TS dont noe how to handle xmm Mr. Green

nuratz SG

morale of the story;

"girls: can't live with them can't live without them"

because guys are ruled by our second, albeit dominant, head.

M©+square SG

This is the culprit of all communication breakdown. The cause of weak foundation.

My earlier statement is not meant to offend or cause personal attacks. My apologies if anyone is hurt.

jojobeach SG

11.57am - U sure you wan to go? If you tired den nvm.
THIS IS A TRICK QUESTION .
Just answer: Yes I want to go with you.

6.49pm - Do you wan to buy mooncake with me tmr? If not, i can ask my frens accompany me.
THIS IS ALSO A TRICK QUESTION.
Just answer : Yes I want to go buy mooncake with you.

7.24pm - Today u dun wan wat
THIS IS ANOTHER TRICK STATEMENT.
Just answer : If you want me to, I'd be happy to.

If you had answered accordingly to the above, you'd have gotten yourself 50 score points. AND avoided an argument.

Your girl is testing your sincerity.
I think she is having doubts about your commitment in this relationship.

Zarks SG

That is why the answers are alwasy depend on you.. if you really wan to go, then go for it, even she ask u to rest. If you dont like her keep asking, just simply said, im a man with my word Smile

YOU should be lucky at least your gf still think for your money you need to spent for the gift.. some gal dont even bother you know.. I guess mayb she was right.. i dun think she is the kind of gal who fancies expensive things.. why dont one day u try to make a gift yourself instead of buying it,, she only look for your sincerity not how expensive the gift

U should try to alwasy talk to her even if she doesnt want to. but u have be really sincere bout it and i think you shoud say something like you cant live happily without having her in life. U should also admit your weakness and seek to her that u will change it but you must keep that promise..

"All I wish now that she will come back to me."

Tell that to her..What a gal needs is someone who can understand them and be there for them... she doesnt actually making your life difficult but instead shes actually showing you what is your weakness.. sometimes normal friend wont even bother to tell your weakness

YOu got a good gf, my fren.. she might b a little pampered gal but will you even like her if shes being too serious ?

Best of luck

Zarks SG

Yea, i believe that too.. can i ask how many times you say you love her everyday ? HOw many times you call her a day just to check if shes alrite?\\

I think she's scared of your commitment in this r/s. She might have doubts that you dont really love her. She might think you make no effort for this r/s. And that she think she's already getting a bit tired for all this..

I thk you can still save it.. But you really need to prove how much you love her..She needs to know it from your heart. You can go to her house , kneeling to her if you really love her.. i wont mind doing that if i really love a gal.. it is not how ppl think bout you kneeling.. its bout how u wan to prove how much u willing to do that just for her.. but if u cant ignore what ppl think of u kneeling, then i think you should know that you dont really love her at all...

I just wan to advice one thing..

YOu can do anything you want to do,,

but hopefully you will have no regret doing it..

Never try to think of the outcome, cuz watever it will be, will be. You just have to do what you have to do, got it ?

X-men SG

girls... when ask you to rest it out of 'showing' concern one.

They like to say the opposite. Want say dont want.. dont want say up to u. always try to make u the bad guy.

Anyway, its a senseless arguement. Just let her go with her friends Wink

Shark8 SG

We always smsed each other reporting our whereabouts and the tasks that we are currently doing. I do tell her that I miss her every now and then. And I admit that I didn't say 'I love you' to her frequently. Don't you think that if the 3 words is said too often, it will lose it's magic and give the impression to her that I say it for the sake of saying it (insincerity) ?

Well, yesterday, she sent me a text message and asked me out to hunt for mooncakes and present. We went to eat dinner and window shop a while. We didn't hold hands and sometimes she will sort of hold my arm when trying to explain something. Conversations kept going throughout the meeting with additions of laughter in between. But it's more of a friend - friend situation right now.

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